Anonymous wrote:He's creepy and controlling and deeply screwed up. Just because he was polite in the texts doesn't make him a nice guy - he was trying to impose absurd, unreasonable constraints on a romantic partner. That is by definition abusive. How screwed up would you have to be to get involved with someone whose job involves wearing a bathing suit and then chastise that person for wearing a bathing suit? And his girlfriends aren't permitted to talk to men? Ayatollah Jonah is a jerk.

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Anonymous wrote:One thing I think people in this thread are glossing over is that social media engagement is effectively her job/a major part of her job. Following his rules would be akin to asking her to quit her job and become financially dependent on him after only a few months of dating. Which is creepy and weird.

I still think she should never have released these, but his “boundaries” (not boundaries at all, rules for her life) were not reasonable.

So that means that you shouldn't date Jonah Hill. But he isn't wrong for laying out what he wants in a mate. It's really not that unusual for a rich man to want his spouse to quit her work and be available for him full-time, and many women are happy with that lifestyle. Not my jam, but also not my role to criticize other people's choices.

Anonymous wrote:Follow HouseInHabit. She uncovers it all, as always. Ex-girlfriend is bi-polar surfer/model looking for PR a year after they broke up and he has moved on. His texts are actually very encouraging and sane.

Anonymous wrote:They’re not abusive but they’re still awful. You can’t just phrase your unreasonable demands in a calm way and pretend it’s fine. Some requests of a partner are reasonable and some are not. The correct response would be for her to just say farewell and move on, but he’s still a creep. Would you want any of your friends to date a guy who sent those messages? Absolutely not!

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Anonymous wrote:Follow HouseInHabit. She uncovers it all, as always. Ex-girlfriend is bi-polar surfer/model looking for PR a year after they broke up and he has moved on. His texts are actually very encouraging and sane.

Sane?

Stipulating that your partner can have no friends of the opposite sex is not sane. That's manipulative and controlling.

+1. You can't have guy friends, you can't post on instagram, you can't wear a bikini, you can't make money in your profession (a profession which is how I met you!)........ for the privilege of having sex with my creepy fat ugly *ss. Um, where do I sign up for that? He wanted to use this "hot" gal for sex and then discard her. He was never going to marry her. The demands he was making are MAYBE something you can ask of your wife. Not a new girlfriend.

That's not what he said.

In so many words, that is what he said. He was bullying, gaslighting, and trying to manipulate a young girlfriend who lacks his fame and money. Also note the age difference. He's almost 40 and she's early 20s. He's disgusting.

I didn't see any manipulation. I saw straightforward idiocy.

+1 He says that he doesn't think they are good partners if she won't follow his list of demands. That's where she should agree and say "you're right!" He even says, no hard feelings. Why does she have hard feelings about it? It's just a dodged bullet on her end. Why is she so mad bringing this up after all this time?

Maybe because he also says stuff like "I am literally the best boyfriend" while he is trying to stop her from having conversations with or surfing with other men? That would irk me if I were her. Like, wut?

So dump his ass and move on. He moved on quickly which seems to be her main issue.

I wasn't a mentally abusive 40-year-old mid life crisis boyfriend to my early 20s ex girlfriend, SHE'S JUST JEALOUS!

Um, good luck that.

Explain the timing then. Why bring up the texts now that he has a baby?

Explain your motives, you know, outside of your personal biases and problems with women. Dragging your abusive ex is a "thing". It's not something I would have ever done, but it's pretty common on social media these days. And just a day or two before Jonah's ex, there was a similar viral thing with a man trying to control his famous girlfriend. Keke Palmer.

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Anonymous wrote:Follow HouseInHabit. She uncovers it all, as always. Ex-girlfriend is bi-polar surfer/model looking for PR a year after they broke up and he has moved on. His texts are actually very encouraging and sane.

Sane?

Stipulating that your partner can have no friends of the opposite sex is not sane. That's manipulative and controlling.

+1. You can't have guy friends, you can't post on instagram, you can't wear a bikini, you can't make money in your profession (a profession which is how I met you!)........ for the privilege of having sex with my creepy fat ugly *ss. Um, where do I sign up for that? He wanted to use this "hot" gal for sex and then discard her. He was never going to marry her. The demands he was making are MAYBE something you can ask of your wife. Not a new girlfriend.

That's not what he said.

In so many words, that is what he said. He was bullying, gaslighting, and trying to manipulate a young girlfriend who lacks his fame and money. Also note the age difference. He's almost 40 and she's early 20s. He's disgusting.

I didn't see any manipulation. I saw straightforward idiocy.

+1 He says that he doesn't think they are good partners if she won't follow his list of demands. That's where she should agree and say "you're right!" He even says, no hard feelings. Why does she have hard feelings about it? It's just a dodged bullet on her end. Why is she so mad bringing this up after all this time?

Maybe because he also says stuff like "I am literally the best boyfriend" while he is trying to stop her from having conversations with or surfing with other men? That would irk me if I were her. Like, wut?

So dump his ass and move on. He moved on quickly which seems to be her main issue.

I wasn't a mentally abusive 40-year-old mid life crisis boyfriend to my early 20s ex girlfriend, SHE'S JUST JEALOUS!

Um, good luck that.

Explain the timing then. Why bring up the texts now that he has a baby?

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Anonymous wrote:Follow HouseInHabit. She uncovers it all, as always. Ex-girlfriend is bi-polar surfer/model looking for PR a year after they broke up and he has moved on. His texts are actually very encouraging and sane.

Sane?

Stipulating that your partner can have no friends of the opposite sex is not sane. That's manipulative and controlling.

+1. You can't have guy friends, you can't post on instagram, you can't wear a bikini, you can't make money in your profession (a profession which is how I met you!)........ for the privilege of having sex with my creepy fat ugly *ss. Um, where do I sign up for that? He wanted to use this "hot" gal for sex and then discard her. He was never going to marry her. The demands he was making are MAYBE something you can ask of your wife. Not a new girlfriend.

That's not what he said.

In so many words, that is what he said. He was bullying, gaslighting, and trying to manipulate a young girlfriend who lacks his fame and money. Also note the age difference. He's almost 40 and she's early 20s. He's disgusting.

I didn't see any manipulation. I saw straightforward idiocy.

+1 He says that he doesn't think they are good partners if she won't follow his list of demands. That's where she should agree and say "you're right!" He even says, no hard feelings. Why does she have hard feelings about it? It's just a dodged bullet on her end. Why is she so mad bringing this up after all this time?

Maybe because he also says stuff like "I am literally the best boyfriend" while he is trying to stop her from having conversations with or surfing with other men? That would irk me if I were her. Like, wut?

So dump his ass and move on. He moved on quickly which seems to be her main issue.

I wasn't a mentally abusive 40-year-old mid life crisis boyfriend to my early 20s ex girlfriend, SHE'S JUST JEALOUS!

Um, good luck that.

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Anonymous wrote:Follow HouseInHabit. She uncovers it all, as always. Ex-girlfriend is bi-polar surfer/model looking for PR a year after they broke up and he has moved on. His texts are actually very encouraging and sane.

Sane?

Stipulating that your partner can have no friends of the opposite sex is not sane. That's manipulative and controlling.

+1. You can't have guy friends, you can't post on instagram, you can't wear a bikini, you can't make money in your profession (a profession which is how I met you!)........ for the privilege of having sex with my creepy fat ugly *ss. Um, where do I sign up for that? He wanted to use this "hot" gal for sex and then discard her. He was never going to marry her. The demands he was making are MAYBE something you can ask of your wife. Not a new girlfriend.

That's not what he said.

In so many words, that is what he said. He was bullying, gaslighting, and trying to manipulate a young girlfriend who lacks his fame and money. Also note the age difference. He's almost 40 and she's early 20s. He's disgusting.

I didn't see any manipulation. I saw straightforward idiocy.

+1 He says that he doesn't think they are good partners if she won't follow his list of demands. That's where she should agree and say "you're right!" He even says, no hard feelings. Why does she have hard feelings about it? It's just a dodged bullet on her end. Why is she so mad bringing this up after all this time?

Maybe because he also says stuff like "I am literally the best boyfriend" while he is trying to stop her from having conversations with or surfing with other men? That would irk me if I were her. Like, wut?

So dump his ass and move on. He moved on quickly which seems to be her main issue.

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Anonymous wrote:Follow HouseInHabit. She uncovers it all, as always. Ex-girlfriend is bi-polar surfer/model looking for PR a year after they broke up and he has moved on. His texts are actually very encouraging and sane.

Sane?

Stipulating that your partner can have no friends of the opposite sex is not sane. That's manipulative and controlling.

+1. You can't have guy friends, you can't post on instagram, you can't wear a bikini, you can't make money in your profession (a profession which is how I met you!)........ for the privilege of having sex with my creepy fat ugly *ss. Um, where do I sign up for that? He wanted to use this "hot" gal for sex and then discard her. He was never going to marry her. The demands he was making are MAYBE something you can ask of your wife. Not a new girlfriend.

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Anonymous wrote:Follow HouseInHabit. She uncovers it all, as always. Ex-girlfriend is bi-polar surfer/model looking for PR a year after they broke up and he has moved on. His texts are actually very encouraging and sane.

Sane?

Stipulating that your partner can have no friends of the opposite sex is not sane. That's manipulative and controlling.

+1. You can't have guy friends, you can't post on instagram, you can't wear a bikini, you can't make money in your profession (a profession which is how I met you!)........ for the privilege of having sex with my creepy fat ugly *ss. Um, where do I sign up for that? He wanted to use this "hot" gal for sex and then discard her. He was never going to marry her. The demands he was making are MAYBE something you can ask of your wife. Not a new girlfriend.

That's not what he said.

In so many words, that is what he said. He was bullying, gaslighting, and trying to manipulate a young girlfriend who lacks his fame and money. Also note the age difference. He's almost 40 and she's early 20s. He's disgusting.

I didn't see any manipulation. I saw straightforward idiocy.

+1 He says that he doesn't think they are good partners if she won't follow his list of demands. That's where she should agree and say "you're right!" He even says, no hard feelings. Why does she have hard feelings about it? It's just a dodged bullet on her end. Why is she so mad bringing this up after all this time?

Maybe because he also says stuff like "I am literally the best boyfriend" while he is trying to stop her from having conversations with or surfing with other men? That would irk me if I were her. Like, wut?

Anonymous wrote:I think he sounds controlling and like someone else mentioned just started therapy so was all about his "boundaries". At the same time, she had the option to break up with him from the first request/demand he made. Her posting this now seems incredibly petty and childish.