Anonymous
Post 07/07/2023 12:59     Subject: DS22's girlfriend is over ALL. THE. TIME.
Anonymous wrote:You need to set more direct boundaries. No guests more than three times a week, all guests leave by 11pm, whatever you want. And yes, if he wants to claim he's an adult then he can pay rent and be treated like a roommate and a roommate would give him tons of crap for having a girl over ALL the time.



This. I would never have allowed the first overnight or anything beyond a 3 hour stay. it's your HOME. And yes I have SN kids.
Anonymous
Post 07/07/2023 12:59     Subject: DS22's girlfriend is over ALL. THE. TIME.
Anonymous wrote:You need to set more direct boundaries. No guests more than three times a week, all guests leave by 11pm, whatever you want. And yes, if he wants to claim he's an adult then he can pay rent and be treated like a roommate and a roommate would give him tons of crap for having a girl over ALL the time.



This. I would never have allowed the first overnight or anything beyond a 3 hour stay. it's your HOME. And yes I have SN kids.