Anonymous
04/01/2023 15:04
Subject: Love is Blind Season 4!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Nobody js talking about Chelsea and Kwame. I feel like he is really trying to convince himself that he loves Chelsea, when he pretty clearly doesn't. She reminds me a bit of Nancy-- still all in despite clear signs she shouldn't be. She will say yes, he will say no.
Despite not being at all what I expected, meeting Paul's mom made a lot of sense. I think the living arrangements and basic personality differences will be a determining factor for them. I predict No from both of them.
Jackie is a real self-sabotager and clearly unstable. She is still young, and has time to heal and settle down. If she doesn't get help, though, she will worsen quickly. I feel terrible for Marshall, who is clearly a nice guy and is getting treated miserably. I hope he will be able to recognize that this isn't on him. They are both Nos.
Brett and Tiffany are both Yes, but I still worry something bad could be lurking, because they are clearly getting a very positive edit. It could be that is because they are genuinely doing great, or it could be preparation for some drama. Hoping for the former.
Agree with all of these, feel terrible for Chelsea and Marshall.
I don't know. Chelsea, at least as edited, is too single minded. She has her idea of what she wants her marriage and family life to be - living in Seattle close to her family, having kids soon, etc., and she's just slotting Kwame in. When he brought up his feelings instead of validating them she's just like "welcome to marriage" and "acknowledged." If he's willing to move to Seattle for her, she could help him find a new soccer team, compromise on when to start a family, etc.
Marshall, despite catching himself when he used the word "project" really does have a savior complex. While it's true that Jackie has issues, their relationship is probably not the place to work them out.
Anonymous
04/01/2023 14:32
Subject: Love is Blind Season 4!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Why wouldn’t it be a real FT job? Brett is a bachelor who doesn’t have any student loan debt. So he probably spends that Nike Director-level salary on rent, clothes, and gadgets. It’s entirely possible he doesn’t have a healthy savings, though.Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I LOVE Brett and Marshall!!
Where are the men like them??
I thought Tiffany was astute to question Brett's finances, and I suspect he wasn't telling the truth. His wardrobe and shoe collection is insanely wasteful.
I wasn't clear on his job, so looked him up.
Brett is a Director of Immersive design at Nike. In several interviews, Brown described his job as “Product Creation that’s focused on using real-time, high-fidelity visualization and collaboration tools adopted from the games industry to help fuel Nike’s culture of innovation and create the future of the “sport.”
Do we think this is a real FT job? I have no idea. But maybe he gets product samples or a healthy discount on the products?
True. I read on his Insta he grew up at the poverty line. It's very impressive that he's accomplished what he has without a college degree. Smart, talented guy who may struggle a little with impulse purchases after growing up with nothing. He's thoughtful and mature, should settle down just fine when he has a family. Hope it's with Tiffany!
Agree. His most lavish spend was $1200 on luggage. That’s not obscene for me considering he likely pulls in $150k min. He likely gets all his Nikes (most of his collection) free. I’m sure he does well and he doesn’t seem like a crazy spender. Tiffany is more of a Shein clothing girl (which is just fine) and Brett is more like a mix of Lulu Lemon and Nike. He’s single with no obligations, that would be fine. I especially liked his approach with splitting the finances and expenses. He seems reasonable. Tiff seems to be very frugal (roommate at 36) so I’m sure she’s coming up in the relationship if they are both well financially.
I love them so much but something gives me pause about him being all in. Why didn’t we hear about his family or friends? He seems to authentically like her but still very much reserved.
He also bought a fancy BMW. But he probably is doing very well financially, likely better than all the other guys on the show. His apartment is nice but small. He's so agreeable, I do wonder if there's more beneath the surface.
Housing is crazy expensive in Seattle.
It's more here. Their houses are newer and updated and more square footage. Similar house here is basically a shock for the same price.
Anonymous
04/01/2023 13:59
Subject: Love is Blind Season 4!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Why wouldn’t it be a real FT job? Brett is a bachelor who doesn’t have any student loan debt. So he probably spends that Nike Director-level salary on rent, clothes, and gadgets. It’s entirely possible he doesn’t have a healthy savings, though.Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I LOVE Brett and Marshall!!
Where are the men like them??
I thought Tiffany was astute to question Brett's finances, and I suspect he wasn't telling the truth. His wardrobe and shoe collection is insanely wasteful.
I wasn't clear on his job, so looked him up.
Brett is a Director of Immersive design at Nike. In several interviews, Brown described his job as “Product Creation that’s focused on using real-time, high-fidelity visualization and collaboration tools adopted from the games industry to help fuel Nike’s culture of innovation and create the future of the “sport.”
Do we think this is a real FT job? I have no idea. But maybe he gets product samples or a healthy discount on the products?
True. I read on his Insta he grew up at the poverty line. It's very impressive that he's accomplished what he has without a college degree. Smart, talented guy who may struggle a little with impulse purchases after growing up with nothing. He's thoughtful and mature, should settle down just fine when he has a family. Hope it's with Tiffany!
Agree. His most lavish spend was $1200 on luggage. That’s not obscene for me considering he likely pulls in $150k min. He likely gets all his Nikes (most of his collection) free. I’m sure he does well and he doesn’t seem like a crazy spender. Tiffany is more of a Shein clothing girl (which is just fine) and Brett is more like a mix of Lulu Lemon and Nike. He’s single with no obligations, that would be fine. I especially liked his approach with splitting the finances and expenses. He seems reasonable. Tiff seems to be very frugal (roommate at 36) so I’m sure she’s coming up in the relationship if they are both well financially.
I love them so much but something gives me pause about him being all in. Why didn’t we hear about his family or friends? He seems to authentically like her but still very much reserved.
He also bought a fancy BMW. But he probably is doing very well financially, likely better than all the other guys on the show. His apartment is nice but small. He's so agreeable, I do wonder if there's more beneath the surface.
Housing is crazy expensive in Seattle.
Anonymous
04/01/2023 13:51
Subject: Love is Blind Season 4!
Anonymous wrote:Nobody js talking about Chelsea and Kwame. I feel like he is really trying to convince himself that he loves Chelsea, when he pretty clearly doesn't. She reminds me a bit of Nancy-- still all in despite clear signs she shouldn't be. She will say yes, he will say no.
Despite not being at all what I expected, meeting Paul's mom made a lot of sense. I think the living arrangements and basic personality differences will be a determining factor for them. I predict No from both of them.
Jackie is a real self-sabotager and clearly unstable. She is still young, and has time to heal and settle down. If she doesn't get help, though, she will worsen quickly. I feel terrible for Marshall, who is clearly a nice guy and is getting treated miserably. I hope he will be able to recognize that this isn't on him. They are both Nos.
Brett and Tiffany are both Yes, but I still worry something bad could be lurking, because they are clearly getting a very positive edit. It could be that is because they are genuinely doing great, or it could be preparation for some drama. Hoping for the former.
Agree with all of these, feel terrible for Chelsea and Marshall.
Anonymous
04/01/2023 13:49
Subject: Love is Blind Season 4!
Nobody js talking about Chelsea and Kwame. I feel like he is really trying to convince himself that he loves Chelsea, when he pretty clearly doesn't. She reminds me a bit of Nancy-- still all in despite clear signs she shouldn't be. She will say yes, he will say no.
Despite not being at all what I expected, meeting Paul's mom made a lot of sense. I think the living arrangements and basic personality differences will be a determining factor for them. I predict No from both of them.
Jackie is a real self-sabotager and clearly unstable. She is still young, and has time to heal and settle down. If she doesn't get help, though, she will worsen quickly. I feel terrible for Marshall, who is clearly a nice guy and is getting treated miserably. I hope he will be able to recognize that this isn't on him. They are both Nos.
Brett and Tiffany are both Yes, but I still worry something bad could be lurking, because they are clearly getting a very positive edit. It could be that is because they are genuinely doing great, or it could be preparation for some drama. Hoping for the former.
Despite not being at all what I expected, meeting Paul's mom made a lot of sense. I think the living arrangements and basic personality differences will be a determining factor for them. I predict No from both of them.
Jackie is a real self-sabotager and clearly unstable. She is still young, and has time to heal and settle down. If she doesn't get help, though, she will worsen quickly. I feel terrible for Marshall, who is clearly a nice guy and is getting treated miserably. I hope he will be able to recognize that this isn't on him. They are both Nos.
Brett and Tiffany are both Yes, but I still worry something bad could be lurking, because they are clearly getting a very positive edit. It could be that is because they are genuinely doing great, or it could be preparation for some drama. Hoping for the former.
Anonymous
04/01/2023 13:03
Subject: Love is Blind Season 4!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Why wouldn’t it be a real FT job? Brett is a bachelor who doesn’t have any student loan debt. So he probably spends that Nike Director-level salary on rent, clothes, and gadgets. It’s entirely possible he doesn’t have a healthy savings, though.Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I LOVE Brett and Marshall!!
Where are the men like them??
I thought Tiffany was astute to question Brett's finances, and I suspect he wasn't telling the truth. His wardrobe and shoe collection is insanely wasteful.
I wasn't clear on his job, so looked him up.
Brett is a Director of Immersive design at Nike. In several interviews, Brown described his job as “Product Creation that’s focused on using real-time, high-fidelity visualization and collaboration tools adopted from the games industry to help fuel Nike’s culture of innovation and create the future of the “sport.”
Do we think this is a real FT job? I have no idea. But maybe he gets product samples or a healthy discount on the products?
True. I read on his Insta he grew up at the poverty line. It's very impressive that he's accomplished what he has without a college degree. Smart, talented guy who may struggle a little with impulse purchases after growing up with nothing. He's thoughtful and mature, should settle down just fine when he has a family. Hope it's with Tiffany!
Agree. His most lavish spend was $1200 on luggage. That’s not obscene for me considering he likely pulls in $150k min. He likely gets all his Nikes (most of his collection) free. I’m sure he does well and he doesn’t seem like a crazy spender. Tiffany is more of a Shein clothing girl (which is just fine) and Brett is more like a mix of Lulu Lemon and Nike. He’s single with no obligations, that would be fine. I especially liked his approach with splitting the finances and expenses. He seems reasonable. Tiff seems to be very frugal (roommate at 36) so I’m sure she’s coming up in the relationship if they are both well financially.
I love them so much but something gives me pause about him being all in. Why didn’t we hear about his family or friends? He seems to authentically like her but still very much reserved.
He also bought a fancy BMW. But he probably is doing very well financially, likely better than all the other guys on the show. His apartment is nice but small. He's so agreeable, I do wonder if there's more beneath the surface.
Anonymous
04/01/2023 12:38
Subject: Re:Love is Blind Season 4!
Oh also, love Brett and Tiffany so much that it underscores why I think they shouldn’t have any more 25 year olds on the show. 25-30 year olds (with a few exceptions like Randall) seem to be more in it for the fame. 35 they really want to settle down and seem more authentic to me, plus they tend to be better off financially.
Anonymous
04/01/2023 12:36
Subject: Love is Blind Season 4!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Why wouldn’t it be a real FT job? Brett is a bachelor who doesn’t have any student loan debt. So he probably spends that Nike Director-level salary on rent, clothes, and gadgets. It’s entirely possible he doesn’t have a healthy savings, though.Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I LOVE Brett and Marshall!!
Where are the men like them??
I thought Tiffany was astute to question Brett's finances, and I suspect he wasn't telling the truth. His wardrobe and shoe collection is insanely wasteful.
I wasn't clear on his job, so looked him up.
Brett is a Director of Immersive design at Nike. In several interviews, Brown described his job as “Product Creation that’s focused on using real-time, high-fidelity visualization and collaboration tools adopted from the games industry to help fuel Nike’s culture of innovation and create the future of the “sport.”
Do we think this is a real FT job? I have no idea. But maybe he gets product samples or a healthy discount on the products?
True. I read on his Insta he grew up at the poverty line. It's very impressive that he's accomplished what he has without a college degree. Smart, talented guy who may struggle a little with impulse purchases after growing up with nothing. He's thoughtful and mature, should settle down just fine when he has a family. Hope it's with Tiffany!
Agree. His most lavish spend was $1200 on luggage. That’s not obscene for me considering he likely pulls in $150k min. He likely gets all his Nikes (most of his collection) free. I’m sure he does well and he doesn’t seem like a crazy spender. Tiffany is more of a Shein clothing girl (which is just fine) and Brett is more like a mix of Lulu Lemon and Nike. He’s single with no obligations, that would be fine. I especially liked his approach with splitting the finances and expenses. He seems reasonable. Tiff seems to be very frugal (roommate at 36) so I’m sure she’s coming up in the relationship if they are both well financially.
I love them so much but something gives me pause about him being all in. Why didn’t we hear about his family or friends? He seems to authentically like her but still very much reserved.
Anonymous
04/01/2023 10:28
Subject: Love is Blind Season 4!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I LOVE Brett and Marshall!!
Where are the men like them??
I thought Tiffany was astute to question Brett's finances, and I suspect he wasn't telling the truth. His wardrobe and shoe collection is insanely wasteful.
Okay, good point. I think he is smart and articulate but more high maintenance than I like.
Not totally crazy for a bachelor but I always worry someone that into goods and looks is going to be materialistic/shallow. Hoping he's the real deal. Tiffany was wise to check.
Anonymous
04/01/2023 00:18
Subject: Love is Blind Season 4!
Anonymous wrote:Why wouldn’t it be a real FT job? Brett is a bachelor who doesn’t have any student loan debt. So he probably spends that Nike Director-level salary on rent, clothes, and gadgets. It’s entirely possible he doesn’t have a healthy savings, though.Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I LOVE Brett and Marshall!!
Where are the men like them??
I thought Tiffany was astute to question Brett's finances, and I suspect he wasn't telling the truth. His wardrobe and shoe collection is insanely wasteful.
I wasn't clear on his job, so looked him up.
Brett is a Director of Immersive design at Nike. In several interviews, Brown described his job as “Product Creation that’s focused on using real-time, high-fidelity visualization and collaboration tools adopted from the games industry to help fuel Nike’s culture of innovation and create the future of the “sport.”
Do we think this is a real FT job? I have no idea. But maybe he gets product samples or a healthy discount on the products?
True. I read on his Insta he grew up at the poverty line. It's very impressive that he's accomplished what he has without a college degree. Smart, talented guy who may struggle a little with impulse purchases after growing up with nothing. He's thoughtful and mature, should settle down just fine when he has a family. Hope it's with Tiffany!
Anonymous
03/31/2023 23:29
Subject: Love is Blind Season 4!
Why wouldn’t it be a real FT job? Brett is a bachelor who doesn’t have any student loan debt. So he probably spends that Nike Director-level salary on rent, clothes, and gadgets. It’s entirely possible he doesn’t have a healthy savings, though.Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I LOVE Brett and Marshall!!
Where are the men like them??
I thought Tiffany was astute to question Brett's finances, and I suspect he wasn't telling the truth. His wardrobe and shoe collection is insanely wasteful.
I wasn't clear on his job, so looked him up.
Brett is a Director of Immersive design at Nike. In several interviews, Brown described his job as “Product Creation that’s focused on using real-time, high-fidelity visualization and collaboration tools adopted from the games industry to help fuel Nike’s culture of innovation and create the future of the “sport.”
Do we think this is a real FT job? I have no idea. But maybe he gets product samples or a healthy discount on the products?
Anonymous
03/31/2023 23:25
Subject: Love is Blind Season 4!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Watching Jackie is horrible. What a narcissist. Leave, Marshall!
Yes she seems to be bipolar. She has a switch and becomes dramatic. Plenty of people on the show haven’t had their parents support them and they don’t have mental breakdowns
I thought maybe borderline, very unstable and difficulty sustaining relationships.
I feel bad for her. Something inside of her is drawn to normal, but I don’t think she can sustain the relationship. Too damaged.
It is sad.
Anonymous
03/31/2023 22:51
Subject: Love is Blind Season 4!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Micah has a mean, immature best friend who won’t let Paul even talk. Shocking!
Zach and Bliss need to say no. Please end this torture. He scolded her for being pretentious like a day after he proposed — get it together, man! She’s settling for sure. Where is this chemistry I hear so much about? I see nothing.
Jackie is just not ready for marriage. At all. I hope she and Marshall go their separate ways.
Her friends are beyond dumb and shallow. Shocker.
She's using Paul for screen time. Period. He's a dope and his apartment is gross.
Anonymous
03/31/2023 22:28
Subject: Love is Blind Season 4!
Anonymous wrote:Micah has a mean, immature best friend who won’t let Paul even talk. Shocking!
Zach and Bliss need to say no. Please end this torture. He scolded her for being pretentious like a day after he proposed — get it together, man! She’s settling for sure. Where is this chemistry I hear so much about? I see nothing.
Jackie is just not ready for marriage. At all. I hope she and Marshall go their separate ways.
Her friends are beyond dumb and shallow. Shocker.
Anonymous
03/31/2023 22:19
Subject: Love is Blind Season 4!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I LOVE Brett and Marshall!!
Where are the men like them??
I thought Tiffany was astute to question Brett's finances, and I suspect he wasn't telling the truth. His wardrobe and shoe collection is insanely wasteful.
I wasn't clear on his job, so looked him up.
Brett is a Director of Immersive design at Nike. In several interviews, Brown described his job as “Product Creation that’s focused on using real-time, high-fidelity visualization and collaboration tools adopted from the games industry to help fuel Nike’s culture of innovation and create the future of the “sport.”
Do we think this is a real FT job? I have no idea. But maybe he gets product samples or a healthy discount on the products?