Anonymous
Post 01/12/2023 17:28     Subject: Redshirting August boy?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I’ve posted this here before but the post Covid kindergarten landscape is different than it was for kids now in middle school or even upper elementary, and in private school especially, the boys are most likely held back. The 75% poster has it right. There are no summer boys in my DS’s first grade class that went “on time”. Not one. It’s probably expected that you will redshirt and I would be prepared for the school to bring it up.


My son attends a private school in DC and there are no redshirted boys. Not one and my son has a summer birthday. And one with an August birthday. The school never brought it up and this is one of the top ranked schools in the dmv area.


You know the birthday of every boy in school?


Actually, yes I do.
Anonymous
Post 01/12/2023 17:27     Subject: Re:Redshirting August boy?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Depending on the school, you won’t have much of a choice. Many of them redshirt kids back to may for K entry.


Not true, it is not “many” schools that do this.


Private schools? It’s not that uncommon.


It is not a requirement in any private school in the greater DC area other than one boy’s school in the Potomac area.


It’s almost never a requirement. It is admissions recommendations and not fixed or firm. But May as an informal cutoff is not unusual.


Never heard that at any of my children’s schools.
Anonymous
Post 01/12/2023 17:27     Subject: Redshirting August boy?

Someone is super upset at how anti-redshirters in this forum have a history of demonstrating poor math skills in these threads. Sad for that person.
Anonymous
Post 01/12/2023 17:27     Subject: Redshirting August boy?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I’ve posted this here before but the post Covid kindergarten landscape is different than it was for kids now in middle school or even upper elementary, and in private school especially, the boys are most likely held back. The 75% poster has it right. There are no summer boys in my DS’s first grade class that went “on time”. Not one. It’s probably expected that you will redshirt and I would be prepared for the school to bring it up.


My son attends a private school in DC and there are no redshirted boys. Not one and my son has a summer birthday. And one with an August birthday. The school never brought it up and this is one of the top ranked schools in the dmv area.


You know the birthday of every boy in school?
Anonymous
Post 01/12/2023 17:26     Subject: Re:Redshirting August boy?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Depending on the school, you won’t have much of a choice. Many of them redshirt kids back to may for K entry.


Not true, it is not “many” schools that do this.


Private schools? It’s not that uncommon.


It is not a requirement in any private school in the greater DC area other than one boy’s school in the Potomac area.


It’s almost never a requirement. It is admissions recommendations and not fixed or firm. But May as an informal cutoff is not unusual.


Simply not true. I worked in admissions at 3 area private schools and this is just not an accurate statement whatsoever.
Anonymous
Post 01/12/2023 17:25     Subject: Redshirting August boy?

Anonymous wrote:Looking forward to seeing the posts from the math-impaired anti-redshirters talking about OPs twenty-year-old high school senior!


Okay, troll.
Anonymous
Post 01/12/2023 17:25     Subject: Redshirting August boy?

Anonymous wrote:Looking forward to seeing the posts from the math-impaired anti-redshirters talking about OPs twenty-year-old high school senior!


Yes because a 13 month age difference means they are 2 years apart! All year long.
Anonymous
Post 01/12/2023 17:25     Subject: Re:Redshirting August boy?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Depending on the school, you won’t have much of a choice. Many of them redshirt kids back to may for K entry.


Not true, it is not “many” schools that do this.


Private schools? It’s not that uncommon.


It is not a requirement in any private school in the greater DC area other than one boy’s school in the Potomac area.


It’s almost never a requirement. It is admissions recommendations and not fixed or firm. But May as an informal cutoff is not unusual.
Anonymous
Post 01/12/2023 17:23     Subject: Redshirting August boy?

Anonymous wrote:I’ve posted this here before but the post Covid kindergarten landscape is different than it was for kids now in middle school or even upper elementary, and in private school especially, the boys are most likely held back. The 75% poster has it right. There are no summer boys in my DS’s first grade class that went “on time”. Not one. It’s probably expected that you will redshirt and I would be prepared for the school to bring it up.


My son attends a private school in DC and there are no redshirted boys. Not one and my son has a summer birthday. And one with an August birthday. The school never brought it up and this is one of the top ranked schools in the dmv area.
Anonymous
Post 01/12/2023 17:21     Subject: Redshirting August boy?

Looking forward to seeing the posts from the math-impaired anti-redshirters talking about OPs twenty-year-old high school senior!
Anonymous
Post 01/12/2023 17:21     Subject: Redshirting August boy?

I’ve posted this here before but the post Covid kindergarten landscape is different than it was for kids now in middle school or even upper elementary, and in private school especially, the boys are most likely held back. The 75% poster has it right. There are no summer boys in my DS’s first grade class that went “on time”. Not one. It’s probably expected that you will redshirt and I would be prepared for the school to bring it up.
Anonymous
Post 01/12/2023 17:18     Subject: Redshirting August boy?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Definitely do it. And I guarantee the other August boys in his grade will have done it, too


Not necessarily. My son is one of three boys in his class with late August birthdays and none of them were redshirted.
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Same here. My son is one of two August birthdays who are not redshirted. Only one child redshirted because of a disability and this child has a winter birthday.
Anonymous
Post 01/12/2023 17:15     Subject: Re:Redshirting August boy?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Do it.

- parent of a late August birthday kid who didn't redshirt


+1

Parent of an August 4th boy who we didn't redshirt. The difference becomes enormous around 6th grade.


NP. Quite the opposite, actually.


Another NP here. Oh? So you can state for a fact that this other poster’s experience didn’t happen? Interesting.

I have an August girl. We didn’t redshirt. Academics were fine, but socially and emotionally she was definitely more immature when middle school came around.


Yes, I am stating that. And I’m also stating there are immature non redshirted kids as well.
Anonymous
Post 01/12/2023 17:10     Subject: Re:Redshirting August boy?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Do it.

- parent of a late August birthday kid who didn't redshirt


+1

Parent of an August 4th boy who we didn't redshirt. The difference becomes enormous around 6th grade.


NP. Quite the opposite, actually.


Another NP here. Oh? So you can state for a fact that this other poster’s experience didn’t happen? Interesting.

I have an August girl. We didn’t redshirt. Academics were fine, but socially and emotionally she was definitely more immature when middle school came around.
Anonymous
Post 01/12/2023 17:10     Subject: Redshirting August boy?

Anonymous wrote:Definitely do it. And I guarantee the other August boys in his grade will have done it, too


Not necessarily. My son is one of three boys in his class with late August birthdays and none of them were redshirted.