Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP here. I get that she isn’t and never intended on being his caregiver, isn’t capable of being his caregiver and should not be expected to be his caregiver in the future. Geez. But clearly he’s assumed that this was the nature of their relationship. When asked by the visiting nurse, do you live alone, he answered well when I finish healing, I have a partner that I live with….
Well, if he wrongly assumed something, that is on him. And he, like you, should not base caregiving plans on an elderly woman. It's a dumb idea even if she were willing.
Sounds like your dad is in denial or feels entitled to her caring for him.