Anonymous wrote:I read the Afghan couple has filed 4 lawsuits and we are just hearing about the federal one in Virginia now. Why isn’t there more press about this?!
Anonymous wrote:It is mind boggling to me that someone would think they're doing the right thing here by taking this baby away.
Anonymous wrote:This is a horrific story. I adopted internationally many years ago. Every potential adoptive parent is told by the State Department that you cannot adopt a child from a Muslim country. How did he get a visa or Afghan passport with his last name? Hague convention o adoption which stopped most International adoptions also forbids them s. Somebody’s ready needs to get this case quickly into federal court. If anyone knows who is representing Afghans please le me know. There are many people who could help pro bono
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Afghan law requires the baby to remain in Afghanistan or only be placed with a Muslim Afghan relative or another family abroad?
Are we talking current Afghan (read: taliban) law?
Any reason why any country should abide by Taliban law?
This is tricky, right?
It’s not exactly the traditional islamaphobia, white savior privilege, right?
I’m all for orphans being raised by loving family members. I think ethnicity, culture and religion matter. But see the slippery slope? Should orphans only be placed with people who look like them?
Personally, I don’t think any civilized country should abide by the laws of the Taliban. YMMV.
I see where you are coming from, and that’s one of the arguments the lawyer for the Masts (his brother, in fact) was making (referring to young boys being assaulted by men over there), but the slippery slope also goes the other way: can we just take the babies of countries very different from ours, just because we perceive their laws and procedures to be inferior?
+1 Could some couple from Japan come and take your kids because they’ll be safer there since there are no school shootings?
Russia has suspended international adoptions by US parents because too many Russian orphans have died living with American adoptive parents (!). Maybe Russia should just start taking American babies?
My work colleague wanted to adopt a Russian child but it was sick from fetal alcohol syndrome. My American colleague was crushed.
Another adoption I know about—the Russian child was very sick and has medical issues to this day. Very expensive. The 3rd and 4th adoptions I personally know about ended up with the children losing their minds and trying to kill their parents.
So Russia sends the best, I’m sure.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Afghan law requires the baby to remain in Afghanistan or only be placed with a Muslim Afghan relative or another family abroad?
Are we talking current Afghan (read: taliban) law?
Any reason why any country should abide by Taliban law?
This is tricky, right?
It’s not exactly the traditional islamaphobia, white savior privilege, right?
I’m all for orphans being raised by loving family members. I think ethnicity, culture and religion matter. But see the slippery slope? Should orphans only be placed with people who look like them?
Personally, I don’t think any civilized country should abide by the laws of the Taliban. YMMV.
I see where you are coming from, and that’s one of the arguments the lawyer for the Masts (his brother, in fact) was making (referring to young boys being assaulted by men over there), but the slippery slope also goes the other way: can we just take the babies of countries very different from ours, just because we perceive their laws and procedures to be inferior?
+1 Could some couple from Japan come and take your kids because they’ll be safer there since there are no school shootings?
Russia has suspended international adoptions by US parents because too many Russian orphans have died living with American adoptive parents (!). Maybe Russia should just start taking American babies?
Anonymous wrote:Things like this happen to U.S. children, too. I know a couple that looks perfect on paper and coerced (including $) a teen couple into adoption when she was literally going into labor. Perfectly legal.
Anonymous wrote:I read the Afghan couple has filed 4 lawsuits and we are just hearing about the federal one in Virginia now. Why isn’t there more press about this?!