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Anonymous wrote:She can both have given a fair accounting to Kane AND ALSO be trying to line her pockets and build her celebrity using the story. Literally no one would know or care anymore if she just lived a private life and moved on. We have a short attention span and stop caring about someone’s scandal as soon as it’s quiet for awhile. Instead she’s rehashing the drama keeping it in the public mind and adding details to keep resell relevant.

I’m curious what the end game is. It kind of seems like she is angling for a career as a podcaster/advice coach on these issues.

I think just general “influencer” - put out very general women empowerment type statements, talk about her “mama bear tribe” or whatever she’s going to call her following etc. No real POV, just an angle to be someone and feel important and loved

She mentioned that her Etsy shop would be launching again soon and that she wants to get back to writing/blogging.

She also mentioned wanting to work with other women going through divorce and custody issues to help them understand their rights and services that are available to them. She said she didn't have that and when she ran out of money, she gave in to all his demands because she felt like that was the end of her fight. She didn't realize she could have kept going on her own.

I think that it is very important for people to know that if you don't have the money, you don't have to sign your rights away. I know my brother felt this way during his divorce. My ex-SIL's parents hired a very good, pricy legal team and went for sole custody. He felt like it was over before it even started because he could only afford a lawyer who would meet him 30 minutes before the hearings, go over things then, and represent him for that short time. I think he paid like $300/hr while the lawyer was in court and $75 for the pre-court meetings. Another lawyer in court one of the days pulled him aside to give him resources for people in his position. One of those included representing himself. He went that route and ended up with 50/50 custody like he wanted and the ruling that my niece couldn't be moved out of the state of VA without ex-SIL paying for all my niece's travel to/from visits with him or travel for my brother to visit her in another state (she and her future husband wanted to move to Colorado).

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Anonymous wrote:How petty Sarah seems saying she was so jealous of Natasha living in the mansion with Kane. If he’s really the monster she knew he was, she knows there’s no way that Natasha could’ve been happy despite their beautiful home.

I appreciated her honesty. I had a horrible boss once and I was so upset to hear he married wealthy (for his second wife-cheated like crazy on first) and was happy. Now he's in a bad second marriage and his adult kids hate him. I totally get it and it's fine to admit those things.

Of course it’s fine to admit those things. But not when you’re trying to center yourself in someone else’s trauma. The show is supposed to be about Natasha, but Sarah can’t help herself.

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Anonymous wrote:How petty Sarah seems saying she was so jealous of Natasha living in the mansion with Kane. If he’s really the monster she knew he was, she knows there’s no way that Natasha could’ve been happy despite their beautiful home.

I appreciated her honesty. I had a horrible boss once and I was so upset to hear he married wealthy (for his second wife-cheated like crazy on first) and was happy. Now he's in a bad second marriage and his adult kids hate him. I totally get it and it's fine to admit those things.

Anonymous wrote:How petty Sarah seems saying she was so jealous of Natasha living in the mansion with Kane. If he’s really the monster she knew he was, she knows there’s no way that Natasha could’ve been happy despite their beautiful home.

Anonymous wrote:How petty Sarah seems saying she was so jealous of Natasha living in the mansion with Kane. If he’s really the monster she knew he was, she knows there’s no way that Natasha could’ve been happy despite their beautiful home.

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Anonymous wrote:She can both have given a fair accounting to Kane AND ALSO be trying to line her pockets and build her celebrity using the story. Literally no one would know or care anymore if she just lived a private life and moved on. We have a short attention span and stop caring about someone’s scandal as soon as it’s quiet for awhile. Instead she’s rehashing the drama keeping it in the public mind and adding details to keep resell relevant.

I’m curious what the end game is. It kind of seems like she is angling for a career as a podcaster/advice coach on these issues.

I think just general “influencer” - put out very general women empowerment type statements, talk about her “mama bear tribe” or whatever she’s going to call her following etc. No real POV, just an angle to be someone and feel important and loved

She mentioned that her Etsy shop would be launching again soon and that she wants to get back to writing/blogging.

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Anonymous wrote:I'm curious what happened with her second husband. Wish they had discussed that.

Their divorce might still be ongoing. She just said that what she had to deal with related to Kane impacted the relationship with the second husband. Could br something like, he didn’t sign on to be a FT step parent to two very traumatized girls.

This. Also she joked that she has a bad “picker” when it comes to marriages.

Why she marry a man she met in rehab?

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Anonymous wrote:I'm curious what happened with her second husband. Wish they had discussed that.

Their divorce might still be ongoing. She just said that what she had to deal with related to Kane impacted the relationship with the second husband. Could br something like, he didn’t sign on to be a FT step parent to two very traumatized girls.

This. Also she joked that she has a bad “picker” when it comes to marriages.

Why she marry a man she met in rehab?

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Anonymous wrote:I feel sorry for the kids. No need to put all the details out there.

This is her life and her story too. Kane was so incredibly dishonest about everything. If having some of the truth out there will bring her peace and clear her name, she should do it.

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Anonymous wrote:I'm curious what happened with her second husband. Wish they had discussed that.

Their divorce might still be ongoing. She just said that what she had to deal with related to Kane impacted the relationship with the second husband. Could br something like, he didn’t sign on to be a FT step parent to two very traumatized girls.

This. Also she joked that she has a bad “picker” when it comes to marriages.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m conflicted - I agree they did a good job of not just trashing him but they still feel like grifters also lining their pockets from his tragedy. They are of course entitled to share their stories - but this wasn’t like Natasha’s story of her life with Kane’s details within that narrative - it was just Kane with only a small amount of details about Natasha

Kane was her entire adult life. She met him at 19.

She has a super interesting story of her own - what’s it like struggling with addiction as a mother when you’re also struggling with a spouse who is an addict? How does the trauma of it all impact a future marriage? How does she rebuild trust with her kids and confidence in her own ability to manage when she’d previously leaned on men and pills? Something like that is her story that would actually help other women that details about Kane would be woven into. This was mainly just kanes story as told by her presented as wanting to do it to help other women. If she wants to profit off the experience, cool people do that all the time, but let’s not pretend that this is her story of survival to help others

Is that what they represented?

Well yeah - literally at the beginning they said their “intentions” are just to help others. But the reality is a bit more sharing salacious details about Kane to build their celebrity. If she wanted to tell a story to truly help others she definitely has one, but that’s not what was shared

Anonymous wrote:I feel sorry for the kids. No need to put all the details out there.