Anonymous wrote:Nobody should chop it
Anonymous wrote:Haven’t any of you watched shameless?
Anonymous wrote:Fact: girls will absolutely reject boys for being uncircumcised. Never ever have I heard the reverse.
So if you are looking at it from your child’s self esteem perspective the likelihood that they will be rejected because you didn’t get it done is more likely. Why give your kids something to have a complex about.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Which school district is this supposedly happening in?
Very disturbing that NPs employed by the school district are possibly doing unnecessary physical exams of genitals.
Definitely NOT part of the exam:
https://www.vhsl.org/sports-medicine/physical-examination/
Up until 2021, the forms had a "genitalia (males only section)". According to what it says at that link it was recently updated.
So that would be a very quick visual check. You absolutely should NOT be retracting boys' foreskins during routine physicals. (!!!!)
I am appalled that this unnecessary, invasive procedure may have happened to kids in our community.
What school system was it? Please tell me you are no longer doing physicals.
Anonymous wrote:Fact: girls will absolutely reject boys for being uncircumcised. Never ever have I heard the reverse.
So if you are looking at it from your child’s self esteem perspective the likelihood that they will be rejected because you didn’t get it done is more likely. Why give your kids something to have a complex about.
Anonymous wrote:I’m in arlington, but delivered in Dc at Sibley. According to my OB, since the procedure isn’t covered by insurance, people without means are choosing not to do it. So, I’d guess most boys at Williamsburg, if both here, will be circ. Most at Kenmore South of 50 won’t be. It’s mostly a socioeconomic thing.
Anonymous wrote:Fact: girls will absolutely reject boys for being uncircumcised. Never ever have I heard the reverse.
So if you are looking at it from your child’s self esteem perspective the likelihood that they will be rejected because you didn’t get it done is more likely. Why give your kids something to have a complex about.
Anonymous wrote:Social and medical negatives for uncirc out weigh, no one's been made fun of or regret the circ
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I'm not in Arlington, but I am still in Virginia and I'm a nurse practitioner that works with a local school district to do sports physicals (including a brief male genital exam) for all the middle and high schoolers each May/June, which means that I am uniquely qualifed to answer this, since I have quite literally seen hundreds of penises from that age group, and I have to say that not circumcising is still really rare at least where I am. Like there will be whole exam days where there isn't a single uncircumcised boy there. It's something you notice because it adds an extra step to the exam when a boy is uncut.
An extra step?
Pulling back the extra skin to check that it's not too tight and that the boy is keeping it clean (at that age, they usually aren't).
And just for reference, the part of Virginia I'm in is very rich and very white.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Why does it matter to you?
Maybe she doesn’t want her kid teased?
Anonymous wrote:I’m in arlington, but delivered in Dc at Sibley. According to my OB, since the procedure isn’t covered by insurance, people without means are choosing not to do it. So, I’d guess most boys at Williamsburg, if both here, will be circ. Most at Kenmore South of 50 won’t be. It’s mostly a socioeconomic thing.