Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I’ll add to the reasons she does it; it’s a kink. Some people are exhibitionists and enjoy this. If it’s not about money and she was willing to lose a boyfriend over it and OP said there are no other obvious red flags; it could actually be that it turns her on.
Not cool that she lied and kept it from OP but I think some of the people on dcum would be surprised at what some women enjoy sexually.
Yup. Psychological. She craves the sexual attention of strangers.
The pathological part is the lying and hiding, which suggests that it’s compulsive behavior. She hasn’t worked out healthier ways to channel that need which is a maturity issue. It is probably pretty common for teens to go through a stage where getting sexual attention is a focus in their lives. But most people eventually figure out how to channel that need for social approval into something a little more constructive, like a career. People who don’t figure out how to do that will have to reckon with it at some point, likely at midlife.
How is the deception pathological? It looks more like self-protection, and accurately so, given how her bf reacted and how many people on this thread are reacting.
Anonymous wrote:I found out my gf has an OnlyFans account. I believe she has a similar account on another social media platform. I confronted her and she said it’s no big deal. She used to work as a can girl to support herself and doesn’t see an issue with it because there is no cheating involved. I find it cheating. I love her but I’m questioning my relationship. I used to think she was such an amazing woman with strong morals values, but now I don’t know what to think. I know some will find it hot or be okay with it, but it sickens me. I don’t know if I should try to work through this or break up with her.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I’ll add to the reasons she does it; it’s a kink. Some people are exhibitionists and enjoy this. If it’s not about money and she was willing to lose a boyfriend over it and OP said there are no other obvious red flags; it could actually be that it turns her on.
Not cool that she lied and kept it from OP but I think some of the people on dcum would be surprised at what some women enjoy sexually.
Yup. Psychological. She craves the sexual attention of strangers.
The pathological part is the lying and hiding, which suggests that it’s compulsive behavior. She hasn’t worked out healthier ways to channel that need which is a maturity issue. It is probably pretty common for teens to go through a stage where getting sexual attention is a focus in their lives. But most people eventually figure out how to channel that need for social approval into something a little more constructive, like a career. People who don’t figure out how to do that will have to reckon with it at some point, likely at midlife.
Anonymous wrote:I’ll add to the reasons she does it; it’s a kink. Some people are exhibitionists and enjoy this. If it’s not about money and she was willing to lose a boyfriend over it and OP said there are no other obvious red flags; it could actually be that it turns her on.
Not cool that she lied and kept it from OP but I think some of the people on dcum would be surprised at what some women enjoy sexually.
Anonymous wrote:Actually, she's a keeper.
Anonymous wrote:Bi poilar