Anonymous
Post 10/05/2021 17:10     Subject: Re:Arguments about drinking
OP, not only will you upping your drinking NOT control your DH's alcoholism, it will increase your own chances of developing alcoholism and/or breast cancer.

https://www.wired.com/story/alcohol-is-the-breast-cancer-risk-no-one-wants-to-talk-about/?bxid=5be9e8193f92a40469fc4d98&cndid=27712480&esrc=bounceX&mbid=mbid%3DCRMWIR012019%0A%0A&source=EDT_WIR_NEWSLETTER_0_DAILY_ZZ&utm_brand=wired&utm_campaign=aud-dev&utm_content=A&utm_mailing=WIR_Daily_100521&utm_medium=email&utm_source=nl&utm_term=list1_p4
Anonymous
Post 10/03/2021 23:36     Subject: Arguments about drinking
Anonymous wrote:OP did you see the comment about instead of doing a period of abstention, do a period of moderation? Maybe see how two drinks a week for two months goes? I think that would have been a better test but I wonder if you are out of, how do I say this, relationship capital?


I don’t think moderation will work for OP’s husband. He has demonstrated he’s an alcoholic and does not have control over how much he drinks. He will have to abstain. I know this from personal experience.
Anonymous
Post 10/03/2021 23:25     Subject: Arguments about drinking
OP, you doing okay?
I’m one of the wives of sober alcoholics and have been thinking of you.
Anonymous
Post 10/02/2021 19:55     Subject: Arguments about drinking
OP did you see the comment about instead of doing a period of abstention, do a period of moderation? Maybe see how two drinks a week for two months goes? I think that would have been a better test but I wonder if you are out of, how do I say this, relationship capital?