Anonymous
Post 05/26/2015 14:24     Subject: Duggar son allegedly molested girls including sisters
Anonymous wrote:"I object to the State Trooper they chose to report to."

And then you gleefully exclaim that he was later convicted of child porn!

How the hell were the Duggars to know this at that time? He was working as a State Trooper. He was a State Trooper they knew so they approached him.

This was a responsible thing for the Duggars to do. Go to a State Trooper.

This obnoxious attitude is what gets me. "I object to the type of counseling he received."

All you liberals think you should be able to tell people how to live their lives.

So what if they go Josh Christian counseling as opposed to secular counseling. It is essentially the same. How many ways are their for a counselor to tell him "Don't do this; it is wrong; it is harmful." Josh gets that now.

It is not rocket science. Some secular PhD was not going to do anything differently.

The Duggars have shown by how they handled this that they were concerned about and cared about all of their children. They did not sweep this under the rug or ignore it. It tore up their family. They took many steps to ensure it did not happen again and they did it in such as way as to ensure their daughters' privacy and to ensure that their son's life was not ruined. he was 14. His behavior was wrong. He has not reoffended. The Duggars have not blamed their daughters. They blamed Josh and themselves.

Get over it you judgmental idiots.


I am a proud, faith filled Christian and I object every.single.thing. they did. They needed to report it to a police person who would then make a report. They needed to go to a counselor that specialized in treating sexual offenders. I am a Christian, I know the Word, but I'm not qualified to counsel pedophiles. And any pastor or counselor who was obligated to report this but did not, needs to go to jail. I'm so sick of people trying to supposedly defend "Christianity"by justifying every sick thing some so-called "Christian" does. True Christianity calls for real remorse, repentance and enough Christian humility to accept the consequences. Understand that forgiveness does not mean skirting the consequences. Pray that all of perverts are revealed and uprooted.
Anonymous
Post 05/26/2015 14:09     Subject: Re:Duggar son allegedly molested girls including sisters
Anonymous wrote:^^^ and re: "Josh gets it now" - how do you know that, exactly?




Because now he is only molesting his own kids. Not his sisters.
Anonymous
Post 05/26/2015 13:45     Subject: Duggar son allegedly molested girls including sisters
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I'm shocked at the level of stupidity on this forum-I thought this to be a much more educated group. Clearly so many of you have drank the Kool-aid and are in the same camp as Huckabee and the Duggars-that is downright scary considering this isn't Arkansas!

I think this thread has been discovered by the family's professional apologists.


Agree.
Anonymous
Post 05/26/2015 13:41     Subject: Duggar son allegedly molested girls including sisters
Anonymous wrote:I'm shocked at the level of stupidity on this forum-I thought this to be a much more educated group. Clearly so many of you have drank the Kool-aid and are in the same camp as Huckabee and the Duggars-that is downright scary considering this isn't Arkansas!

I think this thread has been discovered by the family's professional apologists.
Anonymous
Post 05/26/2015 13:16     Subject: Duggar son allegedly molested girls including sisters
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:"I object to the State Trooper they chose to report to."

And then you gleefully exclaim that he was later convicted of child porn!

How the hell were the Duggars to know this at that time? He was working as a State Trooper. He was a State Trooper they knew so they approached him.

This was a responsible thing for the Duggars to do. Go to a State Trooper.

This obnoxious attitude is what gets me. "I object to the type of counseling he received."

All you liberals think you should be able to tell people how to live their lives.

So what if they go Josh Christian counseling as opposed to secular counseling. It is essentially the same. How many ways are their for a counselor to tell him "Don't do this; it is wrong; it is harmful." Josh gets that now.

It is not rocket science. Some secular PhD was not going to do anything differently.

The Duggars have shown by how they handled this that they were concerned about and cared about all of their children. They did not sweep this under the rug or ignore it. It tore up their family. They took many steps to ensure it did not happen again and they did it in such as way as to ensure their daughters' privacy and to ensure that their son's life was not ruined. he was 14. His behavior was wrong. He has not reoffended. The Duggars have not blamed their daughters. They blamed Josh and themselves.

Get over it you judgmental idiots.



I won't say they knew the state trooper friend was involved in child porn. But seriously, it seems like everyone they knew has been in trouble for sexually molesting children and/or failing to report it, child porn, etc. It seems to be a trend, there.

And Michelle later corrected herself, Josh was not sent to any counseling at all, only manual labor.


Your comment that "it seems like everyone they knew has been in trouble for sexually molesting children" - what a load of garbage.

I can't stand all of these ASS-umptions and exaggerations and out right lies about the Duggars.

It is horrible. It is a smear campaign simply because they are fundamental Christians and don't support Gay marriage. Who cares if they don't support gay marriage? I don't care. They believe in traditional marriage. This doesn't mean that they are hypocrites or support child molestation. Geez.


State Trooper
Doug Phillips, head of Vision Forum, which awarded Michelle Duggar the "Mother of the Year" award a few years ago - currently the subject of a civil lawsuit for rape and sexual abuse
Bill Gothard, head of ATI/IBLP - 34 charges of child molestation/sexual abuse
Josh Duggar

I'd say that's a lot of people in the Duggars' close circle, actually.
Anonymous
Post 05/26/2015 13:14     Subject: Re:Duggar son allegedly molested girls including sisters
^^^ and re: "Josh gets it now" - how do you know that, exactly?
Anonymous
Post 05/26/2015 13:13     Subject: Duggar son allegedly molested girls including sisters
Anonymous wrote:"I object to the State Trooper they chose to report to."

And then you gleefully exclaim that he was later convicted of child porn!

How the hell were the Duggars to know this at that time? He was working as a State Trooper. He was a State Trooper they knew so they approached him.

This was a responsible thing for the Duggars to do. Go to a State Trooper.

This obnoxious attitude is what gets me. "I object to the type of counseling he received."

All you liberals think you should be able to tell people how to live their lives.

So what if they go Josh Christian counseling as opposed to secular counseling. It is essentially the same. How many ways are their for a counselor to tell him "Don't do this; it is wrong; it is harmful." Josh gets that now.

It is not rocket science. Some secular PhD was not going to do anything differently.

The Duggars have shown by how they handled this that they were concerned about and cared about all of their children. They did not sweep this under the rug or ignore it. It tore up their family. They took many steps to ensure it did not happen again and they did it in such as way as to ensure their daughters' privacy and to ensure that their son's life was not ruined. he was 14. His behavior was wrong. He has not reoffended. The Duggars have not blamed their daughters. They blamed Josh and themselves.

Get over it you judgmental idiots.



Not really. This is the recommended kind of counseling for child molesters:

http://www.apa.org/monitor/julaug03/newhope.aspx

And this is what the Duggars subscribe to (via ATI/Bill Gothard's IBLP):



And is it any wonder that Hobby Lobby is mixed up with these people?:

http://www.addictinginfo.org/2015/05/25/hobby-lobby-founder-behind-counseling-child-molester-josh-duggar-received-images/
Anonymous
Post 05/26/2015 13:09     Subject: Duggar son allegedly molested girls including sisters
They're Quivers.
Anonymous
Post 05/26/2015 13:08     Subject: Duggar son allegedly molested girls including sisters
Anonymous wrote:"I object to the State Trooper they chose to report to."

And then you gleefully exclaim that he was later convicted of child porn!

How the hell were the Duggars to know this at that time? He was working as a State Trooper. He was a State Trooper they knew so they approached him.

This was a responsible thing for the Duggars to do. Go to a State Trooper.

This obnoxious attitude is what gets me. "I object to the type of counseling he received."

All you liberals think you should be able to tell people how to live their lives.

So what if they go Josh Christian counseling as opposed to secular counseling. It is essentially the same. How many ways are their for a counselor to tell him "Don't do this; it is wrong; it is harmful." Josh gets that now.

It is not rocket science. Some secular PhD was not going to do anything differently.

The Duggars have shown by how they handled this that they were concerned about and cared about all of their children. They did not sweep this under the rug or ignore it. It tore up their family. They took many steps to ensure it did not happen again and they did it in such as way as to ensure their daughters' privacy and to ensure that their son's life was not ruined. he was 14. His behavior was wrong. He has not reoffended. The Duggars have not blamed their daughters. They blamed Josh and themselves.

Get over it you judgmental idiots.



I posted this a few pages back, but this is what their religious leaders use as their template for "counseling" and is likely the only sort of counseling the children received: https://homeschoolersanonymous.wordpress.com/2015/05/23/gothards-ati-and-the-duggar-familys-secrets/ I would read this carefully before suggesting that this kind of "counseling" is anything other than religious brainwashing. No actually educated therapist, psychologist, or psychiatrist is going to blame a child for seducing her older sibling. So evidently it is rocket science.

The way some of you defend this behavior and the coverup makes me wonder if you were also victims of molestation and a similarly victim-blaming aftermath. If you were, I want you to know that you didn't do anything wrong. You didn't seduce him or her, you didn't encourage them or anything they did to you. There are people who will listen, believe and trust you. There is healing.
Anonymous
Post 05/26/2015 13:08     Subject: Duggar son allegedly molested girls including sisters
"It is horrible. It is a smear campaign simply because they are fundamental Christians and don't support Gay marriage. Who cares if they don't support gay marriage? I don't care. They believe in traditional marriage. This doesn't mean that they are hypocrites or support child molestation. Geez."

PP, it might be a smear campaign, but they have opened their own door there. I've watched the show for the last two seasons, and I was really sort of starting to like them. They seem happy (at least some of them do). If they just left it at a show of one happy huge family, this might be different. But they haven't. They can believe in whatever they want, but they don't leave it there. They lobby with the goal that we should ALL have to live by their beliefs. They are attempting to force their beliefs on everyone else. That's their goal. So that's why they're hypocrites, acting like the gay community are dangerous to children when the only one molesting children from their standpoint is sitting within their own family.
Anonymous
Post 05/26/2015 12:56     Subject: Duggar son allegedly molested girls including sisters
Anonymous wrote:I'm shocked at the level of stupidity on this forum-I thought this to be a much more educated group. Clearly so many of you have drank the Kool-aid and are in the same camp as Huckabee and the Duggars-that is downright scary considering this isn't Arkansas!


There are posters from all over the US. Plus I think there is a good amount of conservative nonsense in VA.

We live at the point where civilization and hillbilly backwardness meet.
Anonymous
Post 05/26/2015 12:56     Subject: Duggar son allegedly molested girls including sisters
^ that was for 12:47
Anonymous
Post 05/26/2015 12:55     Subject: Duggar son allegedly molested girls including sisters
PP:

I'm a Christian, I'm conservative, and I believe marriage is between a man and a woman. I've been loving this show for years.

What happened with this family is reprehensible and the show needs to be gone. It makes me sick that people are making excuses for Jim Bob, Michelle, and Josh.
Anonymous
Post 05/26/2015 12:52     Subject: Re:Duggar son allegedly molested girls including sisters
Anonymous wrote:
The Duggars did not turn a blind eye to this issue.

Stop twisting the facts.

They were very upset and sought guidance from 1. a State Trooper and 2. Their church leaders.

they sent Josh away and he got counseling. Girls got counseling.


Ok. I heard they are available to babysit your kid. You ok with that?


Of course I would trust my children with Mr. and Mrs. Duggar.

Of course I would not want Josh to babysit them but I don't think it would be dangerous.

I also believe that the Duggars made sure that Josh was not allowed to babysit his sisters or be alone with them after the events that occurred.

Regarding Josh now being a father, I don't think his children are in danger and I don't think he is a pedophile. he was a juvenile sex offender - not an adult pedophile and there is a huge difference.

Anonymous
Post 05/26/2015 12:50     Subject: Re:Duggar son allegedly molested girls including sisters
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Quiverfull of Shit: a Guide to the Duggars' Scary Brand of Christianity
http://gawker.com/quiverfull-of-shit-a-guide-to-the-duggars-scary-brand-1706557073


Huh. I did not know Andrea Yates was also a Quiverfull. From the article:

Before the Duggars, the most famous Quiverfull parents might have been Rusty and Andrea Yates. Rusty encouraged his wife to continue having more children, regardless of the fact that a doctor had strongly advised against it: Andrea was experiencing mental breakdowns, suicide attempts, and hospitalizations caused by postpartum psychosis during previous births. After her husband left her alone despite a doctor’s orders to never leave her unsupervised, Andrea Yates drowned all five of her children.


You know I don't feel sorry for Josh at all because as an adult he could have made better choice given his past but Andrea Yates? My god my heart aches for her. Her husband can go to hell.