Anonymous
Post 11/04/2021 18:49     Subject: Most annoying DCUM posters... name yours.
"By your logic [you're proving my point]"
Anonymous
Post 11/04/2021 18:27     Subject: Re:Most annoying DCUM posters... name yours.
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:- anyone who starts a reply with “Um,...”
- anyone who relies on “You’re just jealous!”


I'm guessing someone called you out as jealous. Maybe some reflection is in order for you. Hahahahaha!!!!


DP. You’re right! We should be reflecting on our jealousy of:

“Current culture”
Two spaces after a period
People who give their kids popular names
Kids trick or treating
Samantha Brick
Trend followers
The publicity of Gabby Petito’s case
Del Ray residents
Anonymous
Post 11/04/2021 18:22     Subject: Most annoying DCUM posters... name yours.
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Worst?

Pretty much all the privileged suburban white women complaining about like every damn thing.


You dug this thread up to insult 90% of posters on this forum? That’s cute. Why are you even here?


+1
Anonymous
Post 11/04/2021 18:07     Subject: Most annoying DCUM posters... name yours.
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My net worth is "ONLY xx million" poster


Or “I have 20 million in the bank, 2 houses and three commercial properties, should I do a backdoor Roth or buy ibonds”


“Would we qualify for financial aid?”
Anonymous
Post 11/04/2021 18:06     Subject: Most annoying DCUM posters... name yours.
Anonymous wrote:People who state their question and then say "OK DCUM, go!"


Yes. I always end up closing those threads without responding
Anonymous
Post 11/04/2021 18:01     Subject: Most annoying DCUM posters... name yours.
Anonymous wrote:My net worth is "ONLY xx million" poster


Or “I have 20 million in the bank, 2 houses and three commercial properties, should I do a backdoor Roth or buy ibonds”
Anonymous
Post 11/04/2021 17:57     Subject: Most annoying DCUM posters... name yours.
The “tippy top” lady.
Anonymous
Post 11/04/2021 17:47     Subject: Most annoying DCUM posters... name yours.
People who state their question and then say "OK DCUM, go!"
Anonymous
Post 11/04/2021 17:46     Subject: Most annoying DCUM posters... name yours.
All of us.
Anonymous
Post 11/04/2021 17:43     Subject: Most annoying DCUM posters... name yours.
Bat-sh1t crazy CRT lady.

I think she might also be:

Crazy VMPI lady.

Insulting, rude, and relentless. Wish she would go away.
Anonymous
Post 11/04/2021 16:47     Subject: Re:Most annoying DCUM posters... name yours.
Anonymous wrote:Posters who think it's their role to decide how OP should feel about something. This is also just a pet peeve of mine in life. If someone says "My MIL always insists on hosting Thanksgiving and it's making me feel frustrated that I'm not allowed to host my own holiday," it's not helpful to say "You shouldn't feel frustrated because x, y, and z." Once someone feels a way about something, that's how they feel. Telling them to just have a different visceral reaction is not actually helpful and just make people feel invalidated and defensive and the whole thing just descends into bickering.

The only way to resolve problems like that is to accept that everyone's feelings are valid and look for practical solutions. "Feel different" is never a practical solution! I wish people would start to understand this more because it seems like this is 90% of the conflict in my life, is everyone just standing around expecting other people to have different emotions and... it's not gonna happen, folks.

I don’t agree work you (though OF COURSE you are entitled to your feelings… — But I do think that people do have some control over their feelings and sometimes reframing how you think about something can affect the feeling.
Anonymous
Post 11/04/2021 16:45     Subject: Most annoying DCUM posters... name yours.
My net worth is "ONLY xx million" poster
Anonymous
Post 11/04/2021 16:44     Subject: Re:Most annoying DCUM posters... name yours.
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:- anyone who starts a reply with “Um,...”
- anyone who relies on “You’re just jealous!”


I'm guessing someone called you out as jealous. Maybe some reflection is in order for you. Hahahahaha!!!!


DP. No the "you're jealous" thing is a lazy retort when people are called out on bad behavior or distasteful bragging. It's immature.
Anonymous
Post 11/04/2021 16:43     Subject: Most annoying DCUM posters... name yours.
Anonymous wrote:Those who call multiple people “one obsessed poster” or “one defensive poster”.


+1. I often get accused of sock puppeting and I’m like…no, several of us just disagree with you, lady!
Anonymous
Post 11/04/2021 16:42     Subject: Re:Most annoying DCUM posters... name yours.
Anonymous wrote:- anyone who starts a reply with “Um,...”
- anyone who relies on “You’re just jealous!”


I'm guessing someone called you out as jealous. Maybe some reflection is in order for you. Hahahahaha!!!!