Anonymous
Post 02/13/2026 04:42     Subject: Child struggling to decide UVA vs UMich

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The political climate is quite different. Ann Arbor has long been the kind of place where it helps to be fine with counterculture types yelling on street corners. Charlottesville seems downright wholesome in comparison.


Wholesome tiki torch kind of vibes


1) a decade ago
2) not a single UVA student was involved in the march.
3) the protesters were from out of state. This has been confirmed to me personally by many small business owners who were initially very annoyed that these gangs of out-of-staters met and organized in their shops. One business owner went over to ask them to at least purchase something if they were going to use her facilities. Then she got the drift of what was going on and left them alone.
4)Teresa Sullivan (then UVA president) was as surprised as anyone when it happened (I was there - ironically also in the BB&B but saw no raid on tiki-torches)
5) the participants were all put on trial and sentenced by Charlottesville students and residents. I stayed in the hotel with them.


Do your homework before posting.


Well, the two primary organizers were UVA grads.


Probably Rhodes Scholars too.
Anonymous
Post 02/13/2026 02:15     Subject: Child struggling to decide UVA vs UMich

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Why wouldn’t you go to UVA? Especially if you have in-state tuition and are interested in politics. Sounds like a no brainer to me! Congratulations and best wishes!


+1. No brainer. Go to UVA

Michigan charges OOS folks some crazy high tuition - $70,000 plus? Just because they are Michigan. Gag. And my parents are alumni. Who needs that though?


Average tuition cost at UMich is approximately $66,000 OOS over 4 years. Average tuition cost at UVA is approximately $64,000 OOS over 4 years. One school is top 20 and the over one not even top 25. How could UVA charge that much tuition with that ranking? Gag.






Anonymous
Post 02/13/2026 00:56     Subject: Re:Child struggling to decide UVA vs UMich

Anonymous wrote:“UVA in-state student population, which we did not notice in the Michigan in-state population (e.g., the Grosse Pointe folks did not make up as large a portion).”

That’s because the wealthiest part of the state is in Oakland County.


248 Represent!!!
Anonymous
Post 02/13/2026 00:29     Subject: Child struggling to decide UVA vs UMich

Anonymous wrote:Why wouldn’t you go to UVA? Especially if you have in-state tuition and are interested in politics. Sounds like a no brainer to me! Congratulations and best wishes!


+1. No brainer. Go to UVA

Michigan charges OOS folks some crazy high tuition - $70,000 plus? Just because they are Michigan. Gag. And my parents are alumni. Who needs that though?
Anonymous
Post 02/13/2026 00:27     Subject: Child struggling to decide UVA vs UMich

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The political climate is quite different. Ann Arbor has long been the kind of place where it helps to be fine with counterculture types yelling on street corners. Charlottesville seems downright wholesome in comparison.


Wholesome tiki torch kind of vibes


1) a decade ago
2) not a single UVA student was involved in the march.
3) the protesters were from out of state. This has been confirmed to me personally by many small business owners who were initially very annoyed that these gangs of out-of-staters met and organized in their shops. One business owner went over to ask them to at least purchase something if they were going to use her facilities. Then she got the drift of what was going on and left them alone.
4)Teresa Sullivan (then UVA president) was as surprised as anyone when it happened (I was there - ironically also in the BB&B but saw no raid on tiki-torches)
5) the participants were all put on trial and sentenced by Charlottesville students and residents. I stayed in the hotel with them.


Do your homework before posting.


Well, the two primary organizers were UVA grads.
Anonymous
Post 02/13/2026 00:06     Subject: Child struggling to decide UVA vs UMich

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Culture is probably quite different. Some VA kids want to get out of the state, don't want to run into classmaes from HS. Others are fine with that or even want to know other kids. Which is it for yours?

UVA is in a bad place right now with all the attacks from Trump/Youngkin. And I say that as a UVA grad myself.


No it’s not. Alarmist.


Why would I be alarmist about my own Alma mater? It’s not in a good place when a lot of alums and professors do not support the new president who the now deposed maga board rammed through without proper procedures after forcing out a very popular president?


Not this again.


You don’t think it’s relevant? Okaaay. Many of us were deeply concerned about the longer term impact on the university. It’s silly to try to deny all of the maga shenanigans didn’t hurt it. Sadly they did.
Anonymous
Post 02/12/2026 23:54     Subject: Child struggling to decide UVA vs UMich

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The political climate is quite different. Ann Arbor has long been the kind of place where it helps to be fine with counterculture types yelling on street corners. Charlottesville seems downright wholesome in comparison.


Wholesome tiki torch kind of vibes


1) a decade ago
2) not a single UVA student was involved in the march.
3) the protesters were from out of state. This has been confirmed to me personally by many small business owners who were initially very annoyed that these gangs of out-of-staters met and organized in their shops. One business owner went over to ask them to at least purchase something if they were going to use her facilities. Then she got the drift of what was going on and left them alone.
4)Teresa Sullivan (then UVA president) was as surprised as anyone when it happened (I was there - ironically also in the BB&B but saw no raid on tiki-torches)
5) the participants were all put on trial and sentenced by Charlottesville students and residents. I stayed in the hotel with them.


Do your homework before posting.
Anonymous
Post 02/12/2026 23:49     Subject: Child struggling to decide UVA vs UMich

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Culture is probably quite different. Some VA kids want to get out of the state, don't want to run into classmaes from HS. Others are fine with that or even want to know other kids. Which is it for yours?

UVA is in a bad place right now with all the attacks from Trump/Youngkin. And I say that as a UVA grad myself.
[b]

Actually, UVA is doing just fine. Everyone is happy with the new President and moving along. I am there. If you want to listen to left wing propaganda, that’s your business but you might want to check in with people who are actually in campus. (Youngkin is gone btw and the DOJ investigations are on hold while the University sorts out the examples of discrimination found injuring and firing, the most serious being the medical school - which, Ryan, stupidly admitted he knew nothing about in his whiny, inappropriate 12 pager. You wouldn’t want your Alma Mater to describe are would you?).


If you really are at UVa this is a sign of how not fine things are. And of course you’re lying that everyone loves the new president when 200+ profs wrote a letter saying just the opposite. The maga board has been ousted now -most at least- and we’ll see if they boot the pres. I live dear old uva and hope it can get back to a good place. But it’s not stable now. A lot of alumni stopped donating over all of this. People were really upset Jim Ryan got forced out. If you think this had no impact and all are happy then you definitely have an agenda or your head is in the sand.
Anonymous
Post 02/12/2026 23:45     Subject: Re:Child struggling to decide UVA vs UMich

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Michigan.

If you go to Michigan, you can have a shot at working in Europe (maybe UK) with future residency or citizenship. You can have that option open to you if you attend certain unis.


What does this mean? Is there some program for Michigan grads, or what are you referencing?



Yeah. Weird comment. I can’t speak for Michigan but UVA has an outstanding Global Affairs office and offers many overseas programs and opportunities. My kid participated in a political one after her second year at Oxford. That experience taught her she wanted to return, where she is now. UVA is the number one public producer of Rhodes Scholars, ahead of Michigan. Here’s a list of just the program-centered offerings. If you dig in you can read about the scholarships abroad that UVA students win (The Marshall, etc.) and countries offered. https://educationabroad.virginia.edu/education-abroad-your-major-or-minor#:~:text=Selected%20International%20Opportunities%20*%20UVA%20in%20Argentina:,*%20UVA%20in%20Sweden:%20Global%20Sustainability%20Consulting.
Anonymous
Post 02/12/2026 23:39     Subject: Child struggling to decide UVA vs UMich

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Culture is probably quite different. Some VA kids want to get out of the state, don't want to run into classmaes from HS. Others are fine with that or even want to know other kids. Which is it for yours?

UVA is in a bad place right now with all the attacks from Trump/Youngkin. And I say that as a UVA grad myself.
[b]

Actually, UVA is doing just fine. Everyone is happy with the new President and moving along. I am there. If you want to listen to left wing propaganda, that’s your business but you might want to check in with people who are actually in campus. (Youngkin is gone btw and the DOJ investigations are on hold while the University sorts out the examples of discrimination found injuring and firing, the most serious being the medical school - which, Ryan, stupidly admitted he knew nothing about in his whiny, inappropriate 12 pager. You wouldn’t want your Alma Mater to describe are would you?).


Jefferson Council is back, which means we can call time of death on this thread. It was fun while it lasted. Hope you got what you needed, OP.
Anonymous
Post 02/12/2026 23:20     Subject: Child struggling to decide UVA vs UMich

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Culture is probably quite different. Some VA kids want to get out of the state, don't want to run into classmaes from HS. Others are fine with that or even want to know other kids. Which is it for yours?

UVA is in a bad place right now with all the attacks from Trump/Youngkin. And I say that as a UVA grad myself.


No it’s not. Alarmist.


Why would I be alarmist about my own Alma mater? It’s not in a good place when a lot of alums and professors do not support the new president who the now deposed maga board rammed through without proper procedures after forcing out a very popular president?


Not this again.
Anonymous
Post 02/12/2026 23:19     Subject: Child struggling to decide UVA vs UMich

Anonymous wrote:Culture is probably quite different. Some VA kids want to get out of the state, don't want to run into classmaes from HS. Others are fine with that or even want to know other kids. Which is it for yours?

UVA is in a bad place right now with all the attacks from Trump/Youngkin. And I say that as a UVA grad myself.
[b]

Actually, UVA is doing just fine. Everyone is happy with the new President and moving along. I am there. If you want to listen to left wing propaganda, that’s your business but you might want to check in with people who are actually in campus. (Youngkin is gone btw and the DOJ investigations are on hold while the University sorts out the examples of discrimination found injuring and firing, the most serious being the medical school - which, Ryan, stupidly admitted he knew nothing about in his whiny, inappropriate 12 pager. You wouldn’t want your Alma Mater to describe are would you?).
Anonymous
Post 02/12/2026 22:58     Subject: Re:Child struggling to decide UVA vs UMich

“UVA in-state student population, which we did not notice in the Michigan in-state population (e.g., the Grosse Pointe folks did not make up as large a portion).”

That’s because the wealthiest part of the state is in Oakland County.
Anonymous
Post 02/12/2026 21:49     Subject: Re:Child struggling to decide UVA vs UMich

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:We are VA residents with a DC who graduated from Michigan in 2025 and another DC who is a second year at UVA.

Here are some observations for consideration, but at the end of the day, it is a gut decision on "fit" (and that includes thinking about the $ involved, no matter how much you say to yourself it doesn't matter):

1. UVA's administration is much more user-friendly (for both students and parents) than Michigan's. Students at Michigan really need to be self-starters and need to require less hand-holding in interactions with the administration and faculty.

2. The in-state/out-of-state divide is different at the two schools. Michigan is 50/50 in-state/OOS, and the OOS, as noted previously, tend to be from CA/NY/Chicago and are of course wealthier than the in-state students, since they can afford OOS tuition. The UVA OOS is of course wealthier than in-state students, and tend to be more from the NE. UVA is also 67/33 in-state/OOS. However, we did notice that the in-state students at UVA tend to skew wealthier because there are more relatively wealthy NOVA and Richmond residents in the UVA in-state student population, which we did not notice in the Michigan in-state population (e.g., the Grosse Pointe folks did not make up as large a portion). These different dynamics affect the social and cultural vibe of the schools, including Greek life.

3. Watching sports is a much bigger deal at Michigan. But you can ski at UVA and do more outdoorsy stuff there.

4. Restaurant and bar scene is better in Charlottesville. We liked Ann Arbor's F&B too but the "student" restaurants were not as good as at UVA, with the "alum" restaurants pretty good but noticeably focused on the alums and working professionals in Ann Arbor (of which there are a lot). The relatively higher share of wealthier students at UVA makes for a larger number of good F&B, e.g., the "student" restaurants were pretty decent and the "alum" restaurants have a larger number of student patrons.

5. Michigan is a bigger brand name, including overseas, due to the large alumni base and overall reputation. I am a Michigan alum and travel to Asia and Europe frequently and will say "Go Blue" to another alum on each trip. UVA, not so much, but it is still understood to be a good university both here and abroad.

6. UVA is not NOVA public school v.2 unless your DC wants it to be that way. Our UVA DC will see familiar faces but it's not a constant thing. Michigan, OTOH is huge and DC had to find their own people. It was difficult in the beginning but after a year, DC had a core group of friends.

DC #1 wound up at Michigan because that was the dream school for years after years of watching Michigan sports. DC #2 chose UVA because it felt more like a smaller liberal arts school (but hardly a SLAC; I also attended a SLAC so I know!), had better weather and more off campus options, and ultimately, the cost. DC #2 wants to go to a grad school, and although we could afford it even if DC #2 had gone to Michigan, this was a consideration.

At the end of the day, it's a monetary and emotional value proposition. Michigan is indeed more well-known and higher regarded than UVA but not much more.
For DC #1, that pointed to Michigan. For DC #2, that pointed to UVA.

Good luck to OP and their DC.

Not the OP, but this is a great response!

Yes, a great response. Helpful to me as I help my kid think through a similar choice.
Anonymous
Post 02/12/2026 21:41     Subject: Child struggling to decide UVA vs UMich

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Re politics - UVA is unique in that it offers a PPL program (politics, policy & Law) which my son took. The smaller department means small seminars and closer relations with faculty = better LOR. The career center and faculty got him an internship each summer, the last being with a Senator. UVA has Larry Summer’s Center for Politics where my son worked. It has clubs to fit any political persuasion. If interested in debate, UVA has the longest running debate society in America. All of this plus very good LSAT and GPA got him into a T 4 law school if that’s of any future interest.

I hear what you are saying about costs but is it wise? U Mich OOS is $84,382 and UVA is $40m a year. Thats a delta of $44k+ a year x 4 = $180k. Much more if you don’t have $330k saved and will pay that in after-tax dollars. If you bank the difference and let it compound you can later pay for grad school or starter home.

Good luck. Two nice choices. Go to admitted students’ day at both.


Larry Sabato. You've got Epstein on the brain, which is scary.
[b]. No. I have Dilaudid on the brain, having just had major surgery.


Sorry to hear that.