Anonymous
Post 02/18/2026 17:57     Subject: Daughter has slight (unintentional!) mustache; what to do?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Try at-home dermaplaning first


Dermaplaning is just shaving plus paying more.


And gives you stubble.

Don't do anything involving a razor OP

Wrong. Wrong. Wrong. I used to wax but now I use a small tinkle razor. So much easier, quicker and pain-free!


Same, the tinkle razors are convenient and great. My boys used them when they didn't have enough growth for a full shave too.
Anonymous
Post 02/18/2026 17:46     Subject: Daughter has slight (unintentional!) mustache; what to do?

Anyone have suggestions about what to do with the nose hair that is in the exposed part of the nostril (at the base)? I'm doing laser for the upper lip right now but the tech was unsure about getting that part and I'm thinking maybe I should have electrolysis in that area?
Anonymous
Post 02/18/2026 15:53     Subject: Daughter has slight (unintentional!) mustache; what to do?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I used to have my upper lip threaded regularly from the time I was a teenager, when I lived in India. When I came to the US for college my aunt and cousins told me they used a men’s razor to shave. I’ve been doing that ever since, three decades and counting.


Compare and contrast for us, PP! Which method keeps the hair away longer? threading or shaving?


DP here. I am a hairy Indian too . I do believe that threading is better because the regrowth is not stubbly. I learned to thread it myself and would take a few seconds to thread my upper-lip in the morning. But, once I got it lasered...it was a game changer.

So, my 2 cents is to get it lasered. My laser was a YAG laser.

Anonymous
Post 02/18/2026 15:46     Subject: Daughter has slight (unintentional!) mustache; what to do?

Tinkle razor
Anonymous
Post 02/18/2026 08:29     Subject: Re:Daughter has slight (unintentional!) mustache; what to do?

Anonymous wrote:Why not try a Bellabe spring tool? You can buy it on amazon. It’s a spring that you roll over the hair and it removes it- kind of like self-threading.


+1 it's excruciatingly painful but after awhile less hair grows back, you need to use it less frequently, and you're kind of used to the pain by then.
Anonymous
Post 02/17/2026 20:16     Subject: Re:Daughter has slight (unintentional!) mustache; what to do?

Anonymous wrote:Get it lasered! Don't shave or wax. It will only get thicker. It is worth the investment.


While I agree laser is the gold standard, it is absurd to claim that shaving or waxing will make it grow back thicker. Ridiculous! Stop spreading misinformation.
Anonymous
Post 02/17/2026 07:11     Subject: Daughter has slight (unintentional!) mustache; what to do?

OP your daughter has pale skin and dark hair. First of all, that is the perfect combination to do laser! Second of all, when you wax or shave, the hair grows back again and with that combination of skin and hair, the regrowth becomes immediately obvious. Your daughter will become a slave to her razor. I highly recommend laser.
Anonymous
Post 02/17/2026 07:07     Subject: Daughter has slight (unintentional!) mustache; what to do?

Anonymous wrote:K have PCOS and have tried all the facial hair removal methods.

No, it doesn't go back thicker no matter the removal method-that's absurd.

The easiest method is using the battery operated face razors that look like lipstick cases. She can do it herself at home, it doesn't hurt at all, and they work great on light facial hair.

https://www.cvs.com/shop/finishing-touch-flawless-instant-and-painless-facial-hair-remover-prodid-1670014?skuId=259401&cgaa=QWxsb3dHb29nbGVUb0FjY2Vzc0NWU1BhZ2Vz&cid=ps_bea_pla&gclsrc=aw.ds&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=21199578405&gclid=CjwKCAiAwNDMBhBfEiwAd7ti1P6UcHDV31IDeCOcmrarcDtdr0rsYW6xfMwm1AAeV8bm7Gy6T1GKihoCOPgQAvD_BwE


Yes it does grow back thicker if you wax or pluck. The follicles themselves get thicker. I know from experience.
Anonymous
Post 02/17/2026 07:05     Subject: Daughter has slight (unintentional!) mustache; what to do?

Anonymous wrote:My incredibly thick for a woman mustache was blonde so I did electrolysis. Painful but worth it. Laser can grow back in some cases FYI.


I did laser for my full legs, arm pits, upper lip, and chin in my 30s.

My legs and armpits never grew back. As I aged (now in my 60s), lip and chin did start to sprout again, so I bought another laser package and took care of it. I highly recommend laser.
Anonymous
Post 02/17/2026 07:03     Subject: Daughter has slight (unintentional!) mustache; what to do?

K have PCOS and have tried all the facial hair removal methods.

No, it doesn't go back thicker no matter the removal method-that's absurd.

The easiest method is using the battery operated face razors that look like lipstick cases. She can do it herself at home, it doesn't hurt at all, and they work great on light facial hair.

https://www.cvs.com/shop/finishing-touch-flawless-instant-and-painless-facial-hair-remover-prodid-1670014?skuId=259401&cgaa=QWxsb3dHb29nbGVUb0FjY2Vzc0NWU1BhZ2Vz&cid=ps_bea_pla&gclsrc=aw.ds&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=21199578405&gclid=CjwKCAiAwNDMBhBfEiwAd7ti1P6UcHDV31IDeCOcmrarcDtdr0rsYW6xfMwm1AAeV8bm7Gy6T1GKihoCOPgQAvD_BwE
Anonymous
Post 02/17/2026 06:58     Subject: Daughter has slight (unintentional!) mustache; what to do?

My incredibly thick for a woman mustache was blonde so I did electrolysis. Painful but worth it. Laser can grow back in some cases FYI.
Anonymous
Post 02/17/2026 06:54     Subject: Re:Daughter has slight (unintentional!) mustache; what to do?

Get it lasered! Don't shave or wax. It will only get thicker. It is worth the investment.
Anonymous
Post 02/15/2026 16:36     Subject: Daughter has slight (unintentional!) mustache; what to do?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Nair makes a gentle depilatory cream for your face. Try that and then pluck any strays.

Waxing creates wrinkles around the mouth (particularly above the lip).


No it doesn't.


I’m in my 50s, and everyone I know who waxed for decades has weird wrinkles around their mouths.

I never waxed, and I don’t have these wrinkles.

If you are young and haven’t noticed this, give it some time.


Agree. I’d use a dermaplane or the flawless finishing tool for now. When she is up to it- get laser hair removal.
Anonymous
Post 02/15/2026 10:00     Subject: Daughter has slight (unintentional!) mustache; what to do?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Nair makes a gentle depilatory cream for your face. Try that and then pluck any strays.

Waxing creates wrinkles around the mouth (particularly above the lip).


No it doesn't.


I’m in my 50s, and everyone I know who waxed for decades has weird wrinkles around their mouths.

I never waxed, and I don’t have these wrinkles.

If you are young and haven’t noticed this, give it some time.
Anonymous
Post 02/14/2026 20:21     Subject: Daughter has slight (unintentional!) mustache; what to do?

Do not bleach it. She will just have a different colored mustache. Kids will tease her.
Get the dermaplaning razors. Waxing might be irritating.