Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP, have you asked them?
Just know they also may feel unsure how to discuss.
Did I miss if OP answered this? I was just scanning through and see OP said "I can't ask...."
Why not?
"Hey, we enjoyed having larla over, but things didn't go so as smoothly as possible with the snacks and the XYZ. Can you give me some tips for next time? I want to make sure she feels welcome and comfortable here."
Anonymous wrote:OP, have you asked them?
Just know they also may feel unsure how to discuss.