Anonymous
Post 05/28/2025 13:09     Subject: Do you consider 45 to be ‘old’?

I hada 3 y.o. In preschool when I was 45 so, no, I don’t consider that old.
Anonymous
Post 05/28/2025 13:01     Subject: Re:Do you consider 45 to be ‘old’?


45 is solidly in the middle age range, not "old".
Anonymous
Post 05/28/2025 11:02     Subject: Do you consider 45 to be ‘old’?

I quit thinking 45 was old by the time I finished college. At that age, I thought 60 was old.
As I get older (now 60!) the goal posts continue to move. Age 75 is now "old."

Quoting Billy Crystal from the Princess Bride:
“It just so happens that your friend here is only MOSTLY dead. There’s a big difference between mostly dead and all dead.”

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xbE8E1ez97M
Anonymous
Post 05/28/2025 10:39     Subject: Do you consider 45 to be ‘old’?

45 to me would feel the exact same as 30 if it were not for concern about one's own parents and in-laws aging and physically having to witness it. My vitality is the same, I am young in my head, I don't look old (to me!), my teens don't find me old. But wow is it a wakeup call having to deal with the prospects of eldercare. It makes me feel more like an old adult than anything else in life.
Anonymous
Post 05/28/2025 10:30     Subject: Do you consider 45 to be ‘old’?

45 is middle-aged.

60 is old (don't tell my dh, he's 67 and I'm "middle-aged" lol).
Anonymous
Post 05/28/2025 09:55     Subject: Do you consider 45 to be ‘old’?

Yes very old
Anonymous
Post 05/28/2025 08:49     Subject: Do you consider 45 to be ‘old’?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I would say 40-59 was middle aged. 60+ is old


You expect to live to 118?


You seem very literal. Must be under 45. 😉
Anonymous
Post 05/28/2025 08:48     Subject: Re:Do you consider 45 to be ‘old’?

Absolutely not. Over 85 is old.
Anonymous
Post 05/28/2025 08:44     Subject: Do you consider 45 to be ‘old’?

Old for what? Having a baby or having arthritis?
Anonymous
Post 05/28/2025 08:40     Subject: Re:Do you consider 45 to be ‘old’?

Yes. Not as old as I am, but relatively old. --- Signed, 57 y/o
Anonymous
Post 05/28/2025 08:39     Subject: Do you consider 45 to be ‘old’?

I'm exactly 45. What a coincidence.

I don't feel old but I also know I'm not young either. Whenever I go to the Y for swimming laps, the place is always filled with the fit studs from the local high school and I know in their eyes that no matter how trim and in shape I am, I'm still old and decrepit!

To me "old" is 70s. I know people in their 60s who are fit and active and vigorous so that's late middle age to me, and I'd be entering the middle ages at 45.
Anonymous
Post 05/28/2025 05:23     Subject: Do you consider 45 to be ‘old’?

45 is not old.
Old to me is 70 plus.

-signed 56 year old.
Anonymous
Post 05/26/2025 05:06     Subject: Re:Do you consider 45 to be ‘old’?

I just turned 56 and yes - I do think 45 is old.

Not as old as me 👴🏿 but still pretty damn old.
Anonymous
Post 05/26/2025 04:04     Subject: Do you consider 45 to be ‘old’?

Anonymous wrote:I would say 40-59 was middle aged. 60+ is old


You expect to live to 118?
Anonymous
Post 05/26/2025 03:23     Subject: Do you consider 45 to be ‘old’?

I'm 48 and don't feel old at all. I recently fell in love like a teenager.