Anonymous
09/07/2021 15:08
Subject: Women who say they get hit on everywhere they go
I used to get hit on a lot in my early 20s. I think this is because I went to school in a college town with lots of guys my age. I’d usually get hit on at bars, on campus, or at my pt job. Now in my early 30s and I never get hit on. I never go to bars anymore, never really out to eat unless with DH, pretty much always with my kids when I go out. Fine by me
Anonymous
09/07/2021 15:05
Subject: Women who say they get hit on everywhere they go
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I have a great smile and great figure. They hit on me anywhere. The funny part is when they are hitting on me and DH comes up, he almost 6’4”, 260 lbs and ripped.
Were the men hitting on you younger or older? Needy types?
Both, they dont typically give off need vibes.
Anonymous
09/07/2021 15:02
Subject: Women who say they get hit on everywhere they go
Oddly, I get hit on when I am with my man--I think a lot of guys think "Oh I can compete with that guy". No, it is not delusional-these guys ask my number and followup with where can they take me for a romantic night. If you are looking to be harassed try Charlottesville or NW DC https://www.reddit.com/r/washingtondc/comments/m30mlr/cant_go_for_a_walk_without_someone_yelling_at_me/. Why do men catcall-they are broke or paying child support to a baby momma and think 'I can't get you, but you are unintimidating to harass'.
Anonymous
09/07/2021 14:26
Subject: Re:Women who say they get hit on everywhere they go
I don't get hit on everywhere I go, but I get enough comments and compliments from strangers of the kind I would describe as "getting hit on" even if they're fleeting moments on the street and no one is asking me out or asking for my number. I'm not a great beauty, but I have a good figure, pretty hair, and a "pretty enough" face. Nowadays a lot of the comments are not the crude, obvious leering kind, but more restrained comments. I'll give a few examples:
-older, dapper Black gentleman in a hat, downtown. Gives me an appreciative look as we walk towards each other, smiles, tips his hat, says "that's a very pretty dress you're wearing." I get a fair bit of that kind of interaction: guy checks me out, nods or smiles, says "nice coat", "great hair", "beautiful dress" etc.. Maybe I just dress really well and gusy in the area are very fashion aware...
- as I jog by, random guy checks me out and says "nice form, keep it up"
-younger guy asks me to dance and, while dancing, bashfully says "respectfully, you seem like an older woman, but you are very good looking" (this one really cracked me up)
- the friendly manager at a regular work lunch spot (now closed) who, almost every time I went would make some part of my lunch "on the house" (this was a running joke with my work colleagues who'd go with me and never got anything for free; they used to call him my "boyfriend")
-older, dapper Black gentleman in a hat, downtown. Gives me an appreciative look as we walk towards each other, smiles, tips his hat, says "that's a very pretty dress you're wearing." I get a fair bit of that kind of interaction: guy checks me out, nods or smiles, says "nice coat", "great hair", "beautiful dress" etc.. Maybe I just dress really well and gusy in the area are very fashion aware...
- as I jog by, random guy checks me out and says "nice form, keep it up"
-younger guy asks me to dance and, while dancing, bashfully says "respectfully, you seem like an older woman, but you are very good looking" (this one really cracked me up)
- the friendly manager at a regular work lunch spot (now closed) who, almost every time I went would make some part of my lunch "on the house" (this was a running joke with my work colleagues who'd go with me and never got anything for free; they used to call him my "boyfriend")
Anonymous
09/07/2021 14:08
Subject: Women who say they get hit on everywhere they go
Anonymous wrote:these women are delusional.
And probably victims to some grifters.
Anonymous
09/07/2021 14:06
Subject: Women who say they get hit on everywhere they go
these women are delusional.
Anonymous
09/07/2021 14:04
Subject: Women who say they get hit on everywhere they go
I've twice recently had salesmen seem to hit on me, but I'm never quite sure that's what it is.
One was at a cell phone place, and he entered his number before giving it to me, and asked me to text him directly if I had any questions or problems. I thought that might just be exceptional customer service, but he also offered to be my guide on some local hiking attractions, since I was new to the area. That did seem to be more than just customer service.
And when I bought a new vehicle, the dealer agent asked me to go outside and take a picture of the mileage and text to to him. His co-worker ribbed him about it in front of me, telling me it was his job to get the info and laughing. And he's texted me since and asked me to send him a pic of me in the vehicle. I suppose it might be for a local promotion or something, like an illustration?
I've also had a man come up to me while I was pumping gas and just flat out told me I was beautiful. Mind you, although he didn't ask for anything, he seemed more than a bit down on his luck, and it was definitely a weird interaction.
I tend not to talk about these incidents, but I'd file all of them in my head as likely getting hit on. But you all are the first I've told about it, and I have no plans to relate the stores to friends. They are just strange little interactions.
One was at a cell phone place, and he entered his number before giving it to me, and asked me to text him directly if I had any questions or problems. I thought that might just be exceptional customer service, but he also offered to be my guide on some local hiking attractions, since I was new to the area. That did seem to be more than just customer service.
And when I bought a new vehicle, the dealer agent asked me to go outside and take a picture of the mileage and text to to him. His co-worker ribbed him about it in front of me, telling me it was his job to get the info and laughing. And he's texted me since and asked me to send him a pic of me in the vehicle. I suppose it might be for a local promotion or something, like an illustration?
I've also had a man come up to me while I was pumping gas and just flat out told me I was beautiful. Mind you, although he didn't ask for anything, he seemed more than a bit down on his luck, and it was definitely a weird interaction.
I tend not to talk about these incidents, but I'd file all of them in my head as likely getting hit on. But you all are the first I've told about it, and I have no plans to relate the stores to friends. They are just strange little interactions.
Anonymous
09/07/2021 13:51
Subject: Re:Women who say they get hit on everywhere they go
If that's how a woman defines herself she has bigger problems, lol.
These posts are beyond ridiculous because its the same posters that believe men are some sort of jackpot when usually they aren't. Seriously time to grow up teens.
These posts are beyond ridiculous because its the same posters that believe men are some sort of jackpot when usually they aren't. Seriously time to grow up teens.
Anonymous
09/07/2021 13:43
Subject: Women who say they get hit on everywhere they go
Anonymous wrote:Before I gained pandemic weight, I got hit on at bars, Wegman's, standing on the street, in Ubers.....
Define “ getting hit on” vs somebody making conversation, being nice.
Anonymous
09/07/2021 13:38
Subject: Women who say they get hit on everywhere they go
Ner dy not needy
Anonymous
09/07/2021 13:38
Subject: Women who say they get hit on everywhere they go
Anonymous wrote:I have a great smile and great figure. They hit on me anywhere. The funny part is when they are hitting on me and DH comes up, he almost 6’4”, 260 lbs and ripped.
Were the men hitting on you younger or older? Needy types?
Anonymous
09/07/2021 13:37
Subject: Women who say they get hit on everywhere they go
Anonymous wrote:Before I gained pandemic weight, I got hit on at bars, Wegman's, standing on the street, in Ubers.....
What do you think attracted them enough they didn't heed to the me too fears?
Anonymous
09/07/2021 13:36
Subject: Women who say they get hit on everywhere they go
I have a great smile and great figure. They hit on me anywhere. The funny part is when they are hitting on me and DH comes up, he almost 6’4”, 260 lbs and ripped.
Anonymous
09/07/2021 13:20
Subject: Women who say they get hit on everywhere they go
Before I gained pandemic weight, I got hit on at bars, Wegman's, standing on the street, in Ubers.....
Anonymous
09/07/2021 13:08
Subject: Women who say they get hit on everywhere they go
Where do you get hit on and why do you think they hit on you? Don't say tinder