Anonymous wrote:Eh, you aren’t in great shape and are late 40s wearing “causal athleasure” tanks and short shorts- this sounds totally frumpy to me, never mind how your legs or backs of your arms look. If you want to be in tanks and shorts I think that can look fine, but you need to have better quality clothes. I think some 3-5 inch inseam chino shorts and a linen sleeveless shirt would look better and more put together.
You have NO idea what shape OP is in. Stop embarrassing yourself. Your envy is on full display.