Anonymous wrote:My kid is 6 and is playing soccer this year. I agreed to coach his team because no one else would. I have never played soccer and don’t even know what equipment is used. My kid has never played a sport before. This is all new to all of us.
Any tips?
Having done this, I would suggest:
1. Always be organized. Have a written plan for each practice. Budget around 5-10 minutes for each activity. You'll figure out what your particular group will tolerate, but I doubt it will be more than ten minutes on a single activity.
2. Most of your activities should be games. Each game should be designed to emphasize a particular skill - and in general some element of competition helps keep the kids interested. Some good games for this age are
- sharks and minnows
- dribbling across a square - the kids dribble backwards and forwards across a square with some kids going N->S and the rest E->W. The first to ten trips wins.
- Xs and Os - two teams (3 to a team) dribble through cones up to an Xs and Os grid you have laid out and drop a colored pinny in the grid. They dribble back through cones, pass to a teammate who repeats. First team to get three pinnies in a row wins. Teammates can shout advice to dribbler.
There are lots of other good games - and plenty of web-sites with examples. Switch them up.
3. Finish with some scrimmaging - this can be the last 20 minutes of practice if you want. i.e. it can last longer than the 5-10 minutes for your other activities.
4. During games
- Keep feedback positive and make sure you find positive things to say to all of them. Praise all of them - especially the weaker ones where you need to keep an eye out to notice little things you can praise them for.
- Not sure if 6 is old enough to have positions (too long ago in my past

). It may not be, but if it is make sure all the kids play in all positions. It doesn't matter whether some kids are better than the others - and make sure you give extra praise to the weaker kid playing defense who will likely get scored on quite a bit and needs a lot of praise to help them gain confidence while this is happening. With enough praise and encouragement that kid will improve tremendously.
5. Have a parent talk with all the parents right at the start of the season. Explain your goals and approach and get them onboard. Make sure they understand that you will be aiming to get each kid playing better soccer, not to win games. Although - if you do it right you will likely end up winning most of the games anyway.