Anonymous wrote:How long have you been dating? I’d not take kindly to a man who told me before we were exclusive that I’d be so hot, if only I changed something about myself. Buh-bye!

Since June. So not long Which is why I'm hesitant to say anything. I in general don't have anything against facial hair but his mustache just looks goofy. Maybe if he grew it out and shaped it into a beard or a goatee. But right now he kind of looks like the bad guy from Frosty the Snowman.

Not a huge deal. .

Anonymous wrote:I hate mustaches and beards! I know many women love them but I want a man with a baby’s bottom type face rubbing me.

I really love DH’s goatee. Not only does it look hot with his shaven head and full lips, but the sensation of it while receiving oral is so intense that sometimes I O just from that. That said, he does use beard oil.

Grow out your bush, then make him a deal.

I LOVE mustaches. Send him my way!

"Just curious. Do you have a photo of yourself without the 'stache?"

How long have you been dating? I’d not take kindly to a man who told me before we were exclusive that I’d be so hot, if only I changed something about myself. Buh-bye!

Mustaches are cheesy, so 80s. They make me laugh. My SO had one before I met him - thank goodness he shaved it off before I knew him!!

I like the suggestion from a PP who said just suggest to him that you'd like to see him clean shaven. It isn't like growing another mustache is going to be a challenge - I mean, a few weeks and bam, another moustache. So if he hates it, or you hate it - it's easy to revert to cheesey 70s-80s body hair.

Yes, it’s okay to make gentle suggestions to men on their appearance on how they can look better. Not everyone can get help from “Queer Eye For The Straight Guy”. Some of us need a little help.

Anonymous wrote:Tell him “I think you’d look hot [clean shaven/with a full beard instead/whatever you prefer]”

He might be happy to try another look if you’re into it. Just frame it as a positive. Most men don’t overthink these things.

That's the thing I don't actually know if he would look hot as I have only known him with the mustache.

I hate mustaches and beards! I know many women love them but I want a man with a baby’s bottom type face rubbing me.

Tell him “I think you’d look hot [clean shaven/with a full beard instead/whatever you prefer]”

He might be happy to try another look if you’re into it. Just frame it as a positive. Most men don’t overthink these things.

Tell him. As a guy, I’d want to know.

Anonymous wrote:Is the rest of him hipster?

Not at all.

Is the rest of him hipster?

I really hate his mustache. It's a really corny hipster type mustache and I hate it. I know it's his body/face and he can and should be able to do what he likes with it, and I think it's too early to be expressing my preferences, but man do I hate that mustache!