Anonymous
Post 08/15/2021 14:35     Subject: Is there psychology behind this?

Does he have a crush on you? His way of messing with you like you're in elementary?
Anonymous
Post 08/15/2021 14:30     Subject: Is there psychology behind this?

OP it is no deeper than the social awkwardness of unfunny people who have to repeat the same 'joke'. You can either literally ignore or literally say "Yes, I have a straw I drink out of" every day.

....but just in case he is a creeper, please be sure not to set the straw in a communal drying rack/area just in case this dude has a thing for straws/you/both.
Anonymous
Post 08/15/2021 14:29     Subject: Is there psychology behind this?

I might say something like, "John, you sure do seem fixated on my straw for some reason. Happy to let you have it if you want it that badly."
Anonymous
Post 08/15/2021 14:18     Subject: Is there psychology behind this?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:He's the guy who is demanding all offices be staffed 100% in person because otherwise he has no-one who'll tolerate his anti-social approach to socializing.


Is he also anti-mask and anti-vaccine? He’s brainwashed. Avoid.

He’s the guy most likely to bring a gun to work because people don’t laugh at his jokes.


(Just to clarify, as the PP you quoted, I'm not OP, I just have some theories on who needs and who doesn't need in-person office time, and why.)
Anonymous
Post 08/15/2021 13:53     Subject: Is there psychology behind this?

Anonymous wrote:He's the guy who is demanding all offices be staffed 100% in person because otherwise he has no-one who'll tolerate his anti-social approach to socializing.


Is he also anti-mask and anti-vaccine? He’s brainwashed. Avoid.

He’s the guy most likely to bring a gun to work because people don’t laugh at his jokes.
Anonymous
Post 08/15/2021 13:52     Subject: Is there psychology behind this?

The psychology behind it? He’s socially immature and doesn’t possess strong skills in interacting appropriately with adults.
Anonymous
Post 08/15/2021 13:47     Subject: Is there psychology behind this?

He's the guy who is demanding all offices be staffed 100% in person because otherwise he has no-one who'll tolerate his anti-social approach to socializing.
Anonymous
Post 08/15/2021 13:43     Subject: Is there psychology behind this?

Tell him you are worried that he might need a dementia consult bc he makes the same joke over and over.
Anonymous
Post 08/15/2021 13:34     Subject: Re:Is there psychology behind this?

He’s a brainwashed rightwinger.

The “Libz are banning disposable straws” was a huge story in rightwing media in 2018-2019. He’s flexing.
Anonymous
Post 08/15/2021 13:17     Subject: Re:Is there psychology behind this?

Buy him one and then call him Larlo with the special straw.
Anonymous
Post 08/15/2021 12:32     Subject: Is there psychology behind this?

You should ask him why he’s so fixated on your straw. Maybe he wants one.
Anonymous
Post 08/15/2021 12:32     Subject: Is there psychology behind this?

Tell him his fly is open. He will shut up.
Anonymous
Post 08/15/2021 12:24     Subject: Is there psychology behind this?

Anonymous wrote:That is bizarre

Right! I feel like I’m in 2nd grade. It happened today and I thought I had to ask.
Anonymous
Post 08/15/2021 12:21     Subject: Is there psychology behind this?

That is bizarre
Anonymous
Post 08/15/2021 12:21     Subject: Is there psychology behind this?

Teasing/making fun of something small/insignificant? I have a coworker who always makes fun of the silicone straw I use in my refillable cup at work. It’s such a benign thing to make fun of but for whatever reason he chooses to bring it up almost daily. Larla and her special straw.

I never act like it bothers me so I have no clue why he keeps bringing it up. It’s a straw. I’m not offended but it find it so strange. Why does he do this, even though it gets no rise out of me and nobody else even seems to notice he mentions it?

(He also teases/mentions other random things to other with the same results, so it’s not just me.)