Anonymous
Post 08/14/2021 05:03     Subject: What do you do when you have a type but your type is not interested in you?
If you are looking for nerdy guys, go find and join a group that they are in. I feel you will have a better shot starting out from friends than as a tinder candidate.
Anonymous
Post 08/14/2021 04:30     Subject: What do you do when you have a type but your type is not interested in you?
Maybe your issue is that nerdy, awkward guys don't date much in general...
Anonymous
Post 08/14/2021 03:28     Subject: Re:What do you do when you have a type but your type is not interested in you?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:How old are you? What is your type?


30. Tall, skinny white guys, with dark hair, bonus if they have glasses the nerdier and more awkward they are the better. I don't restrict myself to this type. I accept dates from any guy that asks. Sometimes the dates go well and sometimes they don't. I generally allow for 2-3 dates before cutting it off if I'm not feeling it.


And what are you like?


I am brown, slightly above average height for a female at 5'7" thin ( 130 lbs), and nerdy myself.


Well this is sad.
Anonymous
Post 08/14/2021 00:37     Subject: What do you do when you have a type but your type is not interested in you?
Anonymous wrote:Of course you don't have to be interested in every guy who shows interest.

But a necessary component of what makes me interested in a guy is that he shows a glimmer of interest first.

I don't online date though and I suspect that is how you ended up in this situation.



I do both online and offline dating.
Anonymous
Post 08/14/2021 00:28     Subject: What do you do when you have a type but your type is not interested in you?
Of course you don't have to be interested in every guy who shows interest.

But a necessary component of what makes me interested in a guy is that he shows a glimmer of interest first.

I don't online date though and I suspect that is how you ended up in this situation.
Anonymous
Post 08/14/2021 00:25     Subject: Re:What do you do when you have a type but your type is not interested in you?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:How old are you? What is your type?


30. Tall, skinny white guys, with dark hair, bonus if they have glasses the nerdier and more awkward they are the better. I don't restrict myself to this type. I accept dates from any guy that asks. Sometimes the dates go well and sometimes they don't. I generally allow for 2-3 dates before cutting it off if I'm not feeling it.


And what are you like?


I am brown, slightly above average height for a female at 5'7" thin ( 130 lbs), and nerdy myself.
Anonymous
Post 08/13/2021 23:17     Subject: Re:What do you do when you have a type but your type is not interested in you?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:How old are you? What is your type?


30. Tall, skinny white guys, with dark hair, bonus if they have glasses the nerdier and more awkward they are the better. I don't restrict myself to this type. I accept dates from any guy that asks. Sometimes the dates go well and sometimes they don't. I generally allow for 2-3 dates before cutting it off if I'm not feeling it.


And what are you like?
Anonymous
Post 08/13/2021 23:16     Subject: What do you do when you have a type but your type is not interested in you?
Settle or die alone
Anonymous
Post 08/13/2021 22:54     Subject: What do you do when you have a type but your type is not interested in you?
Anonymous wrote:You don't need a whole type to be interested in you, just one person.



True, but if not a sngle person of the type you are attracted to has shown interest. something has to change right?
Anonymous
Post 08/13/2021 22:46     Subject: What do you do when you have a type but your type is not interested in you?
You don't need a whole type to be interested in you, just one person.
Anonymous
Post 08/13/2021 22:46     Subject: Re:What do you do when you have a type but your type is not interested in you?
Anonymous wrote:How old are you? What is your type?


30. Tall, skinny white guys, with dark hair, bonus if they have glasses the nerdier and more awkward they are the better. I don't restrict myself to this type. I accept dates from any guy that asks. Sometimes the dates go well and sometimes they don't. I generally allow for 2-3 dates before cutting it off if I'm not feeling it.
Anonymous
Post 08/13/2021 22:39     Subject: Re:What do you do when you have a type but your type is not interested in you?
How old are you? What is your type?
Anonymous
Post 08/13/2021 22:32     Subject: What do you do when you have a type but your type is not interested in you?
Anonymous wrote:Generally I am interested in the people who are also interested in me.


But I'm just not attracted to these guys.
Anonymous
Post 08/13/2021 22:19     Subject: What do you do when you have a type but your type is not interested in you?
Generally I am interested in the people who are also interested in me.
Anonymous
Post 08/13/2021 22:14     Subject: What do you do when you have a type but your type is not interested in you?
Have tried (unsuccessfully ) dating outside my type.