Yes we left, when I was trying to get pregnant with our first. I don’t regret it and enjoy going back to the city to visit for overnights or dinner at a nice hotel. Plus, my office is there and ore covid I commuted. Was more than enough for me. It’s a different equation for everyone, but overall find having kids in the suburbs to be easier. With a 6 and 9 year old I feel like you’re possibly past the hardest part though.