Anonymous
Post 07/19/2021 20:55     Subject: Guy wants exclusivity before first date
F no!

Signed, A Guy
Anonymous
Post 07/19/2021 20:55     Subject: Re:Guy wants exclusivity before first date
Omfg just dump him before your date.
Anonymous
Post 07/19/2021 20:48     Subject: Guy wants exclusivity before first date
That’s crazy (and I say this as someone who became exclusive after two dates). There is no way you can possibly know if this is a person you want to say exclusively. Run!
Anonymous
Post 07/19/2021 20:44     Subject: Re:Guy wants exclusivity before first date
I’m questioning why you even had to ask if this is a red flag?
Anonymous
Post 07/19/2021 20:43     Subject: Guy wants exclusivity before first date
Sounds like a nice guy, but in the way Reddit uses the term
Anonymous
Post 07/19/2021 20:43     Subject: Guy wants exclusivity before first date
OP Run away.
Anonymous
Post 07/19/2021 20:41     Subject: Guy wants exclusivity before first date
Tell him you can agree to exclusively date him for the duration of your date. After that, no promises.
Anonymous
Post 07/19/2021 20:39     Subject: Guy wants exclusivity before first date
Why would this NOT be a red flag unless you are part of a religious cult where people don't date - they just have a pre-wedding meet and greet?
Anonymous
Post 07/19/2021 20:39     Subject: Re:Guy wants exclusivity before first date
Do you enjoy being chained in someone's basement? Cancel now.
Anonymous
Post 07/19/2021 20:32     Subject: Guy wants exclusivity before first date
Run.
Anonymous
Post 07/19/2021 20:31     Subject: Guy wants exclusivity before first date
What does your gut tell you? Go with that
Anonymous
Post 07/19/2021 20:31     Subject: Guy wants exclusivity before first date
Huge, waving red flag, assuming he's asking if you're willing to agree to be exclusive NOW. I mean, you can tell him that you are looking for an exclusive relationship, if that's true, but you aren't willing to make that commitment before you've even met someone.
Anonymous
Post 07/19/2021 20:30     Subject: Guy wants exclusivity before first date
Crazy.
Anonymous
Post 07/19/2021 20:30     Subject: Re:Guy wants exclusivity before first date
Run as fast as you can and don’t look back! I wouldn’t even meet him for a first date. This is a big red flag!
Anonymous
Post 07/19/2021 20:29     Subject: Guy wants exclusivity before first date
Been chatting with a guy from a dating app. I’ve enjoyed the convo and we have a date planned. Today he says he prefers to date one person at a time, and would I be willing to date him exclusively? Is this a red flag? I don’t even know the guy