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Anonymous wrote:High maintenance here and have always attracted a lot of men. I don’t think men are necessarily attracted to the high maintenance aspect as they are to my self-confidence. I’m also hot and fun, so that helps.

In what ways are you high maintenance?

High standards when it comes to everything. I’m not insufferable, though, and am very grateful and positive. I attract men who are natural providers and are happy to spoil me. I think there’s a large swath of men who wouldn’t like my standards.

Example: my ex-husband took me to Italy when we were dating. My ex-boyfriend took me to Bermuda. Just yesterday my current boyfriend bought me an iPhone (smaller example, but my point is - they just do these things. I don’t ask, and I don’t *have* to ask.)

So you are materialistic. There's plenty of materialistic couples, OP.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:High maintenance here and have always attracted a lot of men. I don’t think men are necessarily attracted to the high maintenance aspect as they are to my self-confidence. I’m also hot and fun, so that helps.

In what ways are you high maintenance?

High standards when it comes to everything. I’m not insufferable, though, and am very grateful and positive. I attract men who are natural providers and are happy to spoil me. I think there’s a large swath of men who wouldn’t like my standards.

Example: my ex-husband took me to Italy when we were dating. My ex-boyfriend took me to Bermuda. Just yesterday my current boyfriend bought me an iPhone (smaller example, but my point is - they just do these things. I don’t ask, and I don’t *have* to ask.)

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Anonymous wrote:High maintenance here and have always attracted a lot of men. I don’t think men are necessarily attracted to the high maintenance aspect as they are to my self-confidence. I’m also hot and fun, so that helps.

In what ways are you high maintenance?

Anonymous wrote:Men love a challenge. It’s better than being attracted to a wallflower.

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Anonymous wrote:Based on what I have observed: they are absolutely attracted, long term relationship or marriage no, that schtick gets old

I’m extremely spoiled and high maintenance and got married 3 times before marrying my husband of 10 years. And now more spoiled than ever.

I think the secret is spoiled women who are also grateful and happy are gratifying. Compare to women I know who, when they get a gift from their husbands, complain about how the money could have been used better on something more practical. A woman who wants to be spoiled but also makes spoiling her a rewarding and pleasant experience is fun to date/marry. Of course a woman for whom nothing is ever good enough would get old quick.

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Anonymous wrote:Based on what I have observed: they are absolutely attracted, long term relationship or marriage no, that schtick gets old

I’m extremely spoiled and high maintenance and got married 3 times before marrying my husband of 10 years. And now more spoiled than ever.

I think the secret is spoiled women who are also grateful and happy are gratifying. Compare to women I know who, when they get a gift from their husbands, complain about how the money could have been used better on something more practical. A woman who wants to be spoiled but also makes spoiling her a rewarding and pleasant experience is fun to date/marry. Of course a woman for whom nothing is ever good enough would get old quick.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Based on what I have observed: they are absolutely attracted, long term relationship or marriage no, that schtick gets old

I’m extremely spoiled and high maintenance and got married 3 times before marrying my husband of 10 years. And now more spoiled than ever.

I think the secret is spoiled women who are also grateful and happy are gratifying. Compare to women I know who, when they get a gift from their husbands, complain about how the money could have been used better on something more practical. A woman who wants to be spoiled but also makes spoiling her a rewarding and pleasant experience is fun to date/marry. Of course a woman for whom nothing is ever good enough would get old quick.

Anonymous wrote:Based on what I have observed: they are absolutely attracted, long term relationship or marriage no, that schtick gets old

Anonymous wrote:High maintenance here and have always attracted a lot of men. I don’t think men are necessarily attracted to the high maintenance aspect as they are to my self-confidence. I’m also hot and fun, so that helps.