Introduce them as First name + Smith

Anonymous wrote:Mx. is getting some traction as a non-gendered honorific and in HR circles I've been hearing that people increasingly use Dear First Name Last Name to avoid using a gendered honorific for a stranger.

I wouldn't use Mx. with anyone without asking, but this is what we do for a couple non-binary people with our kid. We teach to call grownups Mr. or Ms. So and so, and we use Mx. for people who prefer it.

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Anonymous wrote:Mx. is getting some traction as a non-gendered honorific and in HR circles I've been hearing that people increasingly use Dear First Name Last Name to avoid using a gendered honorific for a stranger.

How do you pronounce that?

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Anonymous wrote:Mx. is getting some traction as a non-gendered honorific and in HR circles I've been hearing that people increasingly use Dear First Name Last Name to avoid using a gendered honorific for a stranger.

How do you pronounce that?

Mx. is getting some traction as a non-gendered honorific and in HR circles I've been hearing that people increasingly use Dear First Name Last Name to avoid using a gendered honorific for a stranger.

I'm not the OP, but I was thinking of it in the context of adults who teach their kids to use honorifics when addressing adults. I guess you can always ask before you introduce.

Another context in which this might come up is in formal professional correspondence. If you have person who has listed they/them as pronouns in their signature and want to respond formally with "Dear _____ Smith?" do you always need to ask?

I like the idea of "Mx." as a gender-neutral honorific, but does everyone?

What about Smith Family?

Most who use different pronouns do not want to be called Ms, Mrs, or Mr. The best thing to do is either ask or wait for them to be introduced. That said, my coworker is not offended when people assume their gender.. If someone calls them Mrs. X, they will usually say something along the lines of "please call me Charlie". If they do it again, they will usually say something a little bit more direct along the lines of "please just use Charlie. I also go by they/them".

Ask, OP.

I’m going to vote NOT Mrs. A lot of women are offended by Mrs.

I write formal correspondence at work. We don’t use mr or mrs anymore. We just address the letter to the person.

Larla Smith:
Instead of Mrs. Smith

How are you finding out that they're "They"? Are you asking, is it a check box on a form you're sending out? Whatever method you used to find out "They", use that to find out what honorific they prefer.

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Anonymous wrote:If someone is THEY do we address them with Mr or Mrs when greeting them formally?

Use they

"They Smith?" The OP is asking for the honorific title, not pronouns.

Anonymous wrote:If someone is THEY do we address them with Mr or Mrs when greeting them formally?

Use they

Anonymous wrote:If someone is THEY do we address them with Mr or Mrs when greeting them formally?

I have been wondering the same think, so thank your asking this question. I've seen Mx. mentioned as gender neutral, but would like to know if that is correct.

If someone is THEY do we address them with Mr or Mrs when greeting them formally?