Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My children's nanny gifts us (parents) a photo book (made on Shutterfly/similar) of photos of the kids doing fun things throughout the year that she takes while spending time with them.
Recently my parents saw a photo book recently and asked if they could get a copy. I understand their feelings, they have missed so much and there are lots of great pictures in the book. . Would it be out of line to ask my nanny if she'd print another copy (or perhaps a couple if she goes to the trouble) at our expense? I suppose she could charge it to the credit card she uses for their activities. Not sure why I am hesitant to ask, but maybe in the sense that I am somehow commodifying what is an incredibly thoughtful gift.
Yes. Doitbyoulf. The nanny is not your damn servant.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I can’t imagine anyone taking that request as anything but a compliment. Yes, go ahead and ask her. Our nanny routinely makes photo gifts and has DS do crafts for their grandparents too. I know she would do it in a second.
Do you pay her extra for all this unnecessary work because you are too lazy,?
Anonymous wrote:I can’t imagine anyone taking that request as anything but a compliment. Yes, go ahead and ask her. Our nanny routinely makes photo gifts and has DS do crafts for their grandparents too. I know she would do it in a second.
Anonymous wrote:My children's nanny gifts us (parents) a photo book (made on Shutterfly/similar) of photos of the kids doing fun things throughout the year that she takes while spending time with them.
Recently my parents saw a photo book recently and asked if they could get a copy. I understand their feelings, they have missed so much and there are lots of great pictures in the book. . Would it be out of line to ask my nanny if she'd print another copy (or perhaps a couple if she goes to the trouble) at our expense? I suppose she could charge it to the credit card she uses for their activities. Not sure why I am hesitant to ask, but maybe in the sense that I am somehow commodifying what is an incredibly thoughtful gift.