Anonymous
Post 06/07/2021 18:46     Subject: An un-vitation?
Anonymous wrote:"Congrats to Graduate! I won't be able to make it, but I hope he has a great night!"


FTW! Done. Card (with gift card or cash?) later if you feel like it’s appropriate.
Anonymous
Post 06/07/2021 18:37     Subject: An un-vitation?
^^

Bring a check to a rando-invite of an hour before???
Anonymous
Post 06/07/2021 18:34     Subject: An un-vitation?
Bring a check. That's all you need.
jsmith123
Post 06/06/2021 21:12     Subject: Re:An un-vitation?
There is no expectation for you to attend. If you do, you could just do a card with a small check.
Anonymous
Post 06/06/2021 21:10     Subject: An un-vitation?
Anonymous wrote:Maybe she realized she wanted to have some fun, too and not be bored all night or stressed with the teens and family, so she last minute invited friends.


This is what I think. You don’t have to go.
Anonymous
Post 06/06/2021 21:08     Subject: An un-vitation?
Your friend is either self-absorbed or has zero time management skills. Or both. I would not go. I would also question what kind of person she is to do this, and why I am hanging out with her. If she texted me later questioning why I did not show up, I would drop her narcissistic butt faster than a hot potato.
Anonymous
Post 06/06/2021 21:03     Subject: An un-vitation?
Maybe she realized she wanted to have some fun, too and not be bored all night or stressed with the teens and family, so she last minute invited friends.
Anonymous
Post 06/06/2021 20:10     Subject: An un-vitation?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:A 9 pm Sunday graduation party?


I’m on west coast


Not much better. 6 pm on a Sunday seems super sketchy like it’s just a gift grab.
Anonymous
Post 06/06/2021 19:57     Subject: An un-vitation?
Anonymous wrote:You are under no obligation to attend a party that you are told about one hour beforehand.


This.
Anonymous
Post 06/06/2021 19:52     Subject: An un-vitation?
Maybe she's doing the last minute party thing of "oh my gosh what if nobody shows up" and sent some panic texts.
Anonymous
Post 06/06/2021 19:50     Subject: An un-vitation?
Anonymous wrote:A 9 pm Sunday graduation party?


I’m on west coast
Anonymous
Post 06/06/2021 19:42     Subject: An un-vitation?
A 9 pm Sunday graduation party?
Anonymous
Post 06/06/2021 19:42     Subject: An un-vitation?
"Congrats to Graduate! I won't be able to make it, but I hope he has a great night!"
Anonymous
Post 06/06/2021 19:41     Subject: An un-vitation?
You are under no obligation to attend a party that you are told about one hour beforehand.
Anonymous
Post 06/06/2021 19:40     Subject: An un-vitation?
Friend just texted a friend group (about six women) that they are having a graduation party for their son that starts in an hour. Our kids are not friends (that’s not how we know each other). I am not showered and have no gift. I really don’t want to go. But if I stop by do I need to bring a gift? Is this some sort of un-vitation?