Change your job and work in an industry that pays more. Then you will meet more "quality" men. I met my "quality" high paying DH at work.

Anonymous wrote:If you're dating, how can you filter for men who either have a good income or will be making so in a few years?

I work in non-profits so all the men I meet are in similar salary range to me. (60k-110k) I'd like to see if I can swing higher.

Man here: if you are sufficiently attractive this is easy, just hang out where the rich people go. If not, it’s harder, you will need to focus on nerdier guys. Offbeat intellectual hobby groups.

Most dating sites charge you extra for that filter. But I think it’s worth it. Pricing is similar to what men pay for the filter to find only high libido women.

Anonymous wrote:If you're dating, how can you filter for men who either have a good income or will be making so in a few years?

I work in non-profits so all the men I meet are in similar salary range to me. (60k-110k) I'd like to see if I can swing higher.

You look at what field he’s in and if he wants to stay in it, you’ll know what his earning potential is. Or even his current base salary and bonus range.

This knowledge comes from being in a career where you interact with lots of talent know the market rates, or you’re a headhunter. Or have MBA friends who know what start up, marketing roles, consulting roles, advisory roles, investing roles, nonprofit roles, etc make a year. Govt jobs and nonprofits publish their comp, or highest paying comp people (foia). You could look at job specs, sometimes they have salary and benefits on them, at junior levels.

Are you willing to date Republicans or libertarians? Are you willing to pretend to be a Republican or libertarian?

There's an app that will let you scan their barcodes.

Obviously the H.S. students are graduating and have nothing better to do than to troll DCUM.

Anonymous wrote:Stay happy and be willing to accept him cheating on you.

Hot not happy. Happy is tough if high earning is your only criteria.

Okay troll we get it you read the couple of active threads on this topic

Stay happy and be willing to accept him cheating on you.

Anonymous wrote:Tell all of your friends that’s what you are looking for and have them set you up.

This. Online it is so hard to tell the real earners from all the low-wage losers.

Anonymous wrote:If you're dating, how can you filter for men who either have a good income or will be making so in a few years?

I work in non-profits so all the men I meet are in similar salary range to me. (60k-110k) I'd like to see if I can swing higher.

1. Look at what he does

2. Look at where he went to school

3. Look at where he grew up

Tell all of your friends that’s what you are looking for and have them set you up.

Become a sugar baby. I doubt anyone would want to be married to you.

If you're dating, how can you filter for men who either have a good income or will be making so in a few years?

I work in non-profits so all the men I meet are in similar salary range to me. (60k-110k) I'd like to see if I can swing higher.