Anonymous wrote:My narcissist gramdmother gave my mom her exact name, first and middle. That's about all she did for her.
I'm sure you're a great mom. You should name your child anything you want.
Yeah, I knew a woman once who was very resentful of her mom naming her after herself, but I think it was specific to that relationship and the fact that her mom was just very self-centered and wanted a mini-me. But that's totally separate from the name thing, and I have known other women who have family names (named after mothers, grandmothers, aunts, etc.) who loved it because it felt special to be carrying on a name.