Anonymous
Post 05/23/2021 19:38     Subject: Re:When did your sex drive plummet?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Early 50s with menopause plus going on an SSRI for depression.


SSRIs will generally kill libido and destroy your sex life; warn your spouse / partner before going on SSRIs.

Doctors do a terrible job of educating patients of this nearly universal side effect of SSRIs.



It doesn’t happen to everyone. Been on one for decades... still have a strong drive (I’m a woman).

But in fairness to doctors, they have to treat the more serious problem...
Anonymous
Post 05/23/2021 18:20     Subject: When did your sex drive plummet?

I wasn’t very sexual right after my kids were born, but when my oldest was about 9 and I was 38, I had a sexual reawakening. It’s been awesome!
Anonymous
Post 05/23/2021 18:11     Subject: Re:When did your sex drive plummet?

Anonymous wrote:Early 50s with menopause plus going on an SSRI for depression.


SSRIs will generally kill libido and destroy your sex life; warn your spouse / partner before going on SSRIs.

Doctors do a terrible job of educating patients of this nearly universal side effect of SSRIs.
Anonymous
Post 05/23/2021 17:57     Subject: Re:When did your sex drive plummet?

Early 50s with menopause plus going on an SSRI for depression.
Anonymous
Post 05/23/2021 17:16     Subject: Re:When did your sex drive plummet?

Early 40s. I had three young children so problems fatigue and stress played a toll but my libido continued to wane as menopause approached and now seems to have disappeared completely in my mid 50s
Anonymous
Post 05/23/2021 16:12     Subject: When did your sex drive plummet?

51 woman, still going strong.
Anonymous
Post 05/23/2021 16:03     Subject: When did your sex drive plummet?

After hysterectomy at 50 years old.
Anonymous
Post 05/23/2021 15:55     Subject: When did your sex drive plummet?

I'll let you know when it happens.

44yo male.
Anonymous
Post 05/23/2021 15:45     Subject: Re:When did your sex drive plummet?

60 after chemo and radiation.
Anonymous
Post 05/23/2021 15:41     Subject: When did your sex drive plummet?

Dropped with a newborn but plummeted after menopause
Anonymous
Post 05/23/2021 15:38     Subject: When did your sex drive plummet?

37 or so. I'm 43 and haven't had sex in 4 years, and I mostly don't care. I'm divorced.
Anonymous
Post 05/23/2021 15:32     Subject: When did your sex drive plummet?

when i went back to work after having kids. Age 37. its 100 percent stress
Anonymous
Post 05/23/2021 15:32     Subject: When did your sex drive plummet?

39, my body never recovered from kids and work and stress. I am willing to try whenever he wants to, not often. We’re tired.
Anonymous
Post 05/23/2021 15:29     Subject: Re:When did your sex drive plummet?

Age 33 after birth of first kid. 46 now and there is a glimmer of it at times but I could go without and be happy. My DH has the patience of a saint and about as much sex as one 😃
Anonymous
Post 05/23/2021 15:21     Subject: When did your sex drive plummet?

How old were you?
Why ?