Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:People aren't going to tell you *exactly* where they are moving. Why? Because plenty of people on this forum are snobs and will try to rip any place listed to shred. I *love* my home (i.e. the LCOL I left the DMV for) and I don't want to see it criticized by the angry, bitter people who think the DMV, New York and San Francisco are the only place to live. I will NEVER mention it by name on this forum. And, yes, my home has
1. Great school district (highly rated by all objective measures).
2. LCOL
3. Better traffic.
4. Better weather.
5. I make significantly more here than I did in the DMV.
6. Laid back attitude
These places are out there. You just have to look. Some people will never "see" them because they only want to live in places considered desirable by their social circle.
What field are you in that you swing higher salary in a LCOL? Medicine?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Daycare in the DMV is insane.
Hhi in dc was about 200k
Hhi in new city is about 300k
South west
Taxes are lower and we live in a great house with a 15 minute commute. Being in a newer house where things are breaking or falling apart is a huge stress reliever. Our daycare bill is half of what it was in dc. Our friends from our 20s in DC all left or like turned into anxious aholes.
Can I ask what city? I’m from the SW and traffic in my hometown is almost always awful and everything is sprawled with no public transportation.
Anonymous wrote:People aren't going to tell you *exactly* where they are moving. Why? Because plenty of people on this forum are snobs and will try to rip any place listed to shred. I *love* my home (i.e. the LCOL I left the DMV for) and I don't want to see it criticized by the angry, bitter people who think the DMV, New York and San Francisco are the only place to live. I will NEVER mention it by name on this forum. And, yes, my home has
1. Great school district (highly rated by all objective measures).
2. LCOL
3. Better traffic.
4. Better weather.
5. I make significantly more here than I did in the DMV.
6. Laid back attitude
These places are out there. You just have to look. Some people will never "see" them because they only want to live in places considered desirable by their social circle.
Anonymous wrote:Daycare in the DMV is insane.
Hhi in dc was about 200k
Hhi in new city is about 300k
South west
Taxes are lower and we live in a great house with a 15 minute commute. Being in a newer house where things are breaking or falling apart is a huge stress reliever. Our daycare bill is half of what it was in dc. Our friends from our 20s in DC all left or like turned into anxious aholes.
Anonymous wrote:1. Smaller city in the Midwest, e.g Kansas City
2. Current is $340K; new would be $320K (1 permanent WFH, 1 military retirement, 1 GS-14 hopefully taking a lateral position— hasn’t come through yet so we’re still here)