Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:WOC here - My kids are older now so my experience is admittedly dated, but I toured SWS during open house season when my oldest was entering PK3. I recall feeling very out of place and unwelcome among the parent crowd and had zero interest in applying afterwards. I talked to another friend who is a WOC and she had a similar cold feeling during her visit and didn’t even bother to finish the tour.
In the years since, my DC have played on sports teams and had other activities with kids from SWS and they and their families are all very lovely and nice people. We’ve also become friends with another minority family that attends SWS and they rave about the school as well. I am willing to chalk my experience up to a bad first impression.
Thanks, I appreciate your thoughtfulness. I'm also a POC, and whenever I find people "cold" at first impression, especially people who are "different" in some way, I don't discount the possibility that some of it comes from my own projections and insecurities, or that some people are just introverted and take longer to get to know, or that it's just a stressful situation and people just didn't happen to be in the mood to chat or be especially friendly. Or that people with good intentions just have discomfort with people who are "different" at first and it's very human to have to take time with that. I'm glad you got the chance to get a second impression.
White mom here. Another factor is that I think SWS has a really strong “in-group” ethos with respect to their program with the atelier etc etc. I’ve dealt with SWS power parents on some neighborhood issues, and let me just say, they have a STRONG sense of their own specialness. Because the school is so popular they likely also feel no need to be welcoming during open houses. So you were probably feeling that vibe (which could also be mixed with race). I will also say that there always appears to be an inverse relationship between how much people espouse a “wonderful child-centered program!!!” and their warmth/flexibility ....
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:WOC here - My kids are older now so my experience is admittedly dated, but I toured SWS during open house season when my oldest was entering PK3. I recall feeling very out of place and unwelcome among the parent crowd and had zero interest in applying afterwards. I talked to another friend who is a WOC and she had a similar cold feeling during her visit and didn’t even bother to finish the tour.
In the years since, my DC have played on sports teams and had other activities with kids from SWS and they and their families are all very lovely and nice people. We’ve also become friends with another minority family that attends SWS and they rave about the school as well. I am willing to chalk my experience up to a bad first impression.
Thanks, I appreciate your thoughtfulness. I'm also a POC, and whenever I find people "cold" at first impression, especially people who are "different" in some way, I don't discount the possibility that some of it comes from my own projections and insecurities, or that some people are just introverted and take longer to get to know, or that it's just a stressful situation and people just didn't happen to be in the mood to chat or be especially friendly. Or that people with good intentions just have discomfort with people who are "different" at first and it's very human to have to take time with that. I'm glad you got the chance to get a second impression.
Anonymous wrote:WOC here - My kids are older now so my experience is admittedly dated, but I toured SWS during open house season when my oldest was entering PK3. I recall feeling very out of place and unwelcome among the parent crowd and had zero interest in applying afterwards. I talked to another friend who is a WOC and she had a similar cold feeling during her visit and didn’t even bother to finish the tour.
In the years since, my DC have played on sports teams and had other activities with kids from SWS and they and their families are all very lovely and nice people. We’ve also become friends with another minority family that attends SWS and they rave about the school as well. I am willing to chalk my experience up to a bad first impression.
Anonymous wrote:Transportation and lack of information about the lottery among many families. Despite the intense focus on the lottery on DCUM many families don’t know how to navigate it. Most importantly they don’t know that their best lottery chance is for PK3. By the time K rolls around, it’s too late. I think that many lower income families might also prefer not to start school at PK3, maybe because they have more stable childcare arrangements that go all day and through the summer? I noticed a big racial disparity in PK3 at our IB, which lessened in K. That made me think POC didn’t know about or didn’t want PK3. For SWS this would have an even bigger impact since there is no by-right K.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:This has been discussed on numerous prior threads. But part of the reason has to do with the legacy of proximity preference from when SWS first broke off from Peabody.
Another factor is that the Goding building is not near major transportation hubs, so it’s more inaccessible than other options and thus is preferred by the adjacent (predominantly white) community.
I don’t think a temporary swing space situation (in the middle of a pandemic) is enough to reverse this factor.
That said I believe the population is shifting a bit over time (to become more black), though I don’t have statistics on that.
Thank you for the reply, I didn’t know about the history with Peabody or the proximity preference, that does explain a lot.
I looked for a thread on this issue but SWS gets mentioned a lot on this forum and didn’t see anything on point.
Anonymous wrote:This has been discussed on numerous prior threads. But part of the reason has to do with the legacy of proximity preference from when SWS first broke off from Peabody.
Another factor is that the Goding building is not near major transportation hubs, so it’s more inaccessible than other options and thus is preferred by the adjacent (predominantly white) community.
I don’t think a temporary swing space situation (in the middle of a pandemic) is enough to reverse this factor.
That said I believe the population is shifting a bit over time (to become more black), though I don’t have statistics on that.
Anonymous wrote:60% is not “very” or “so”. It is much more diverse than e.g. Walt Whitman.
If you knew much about DC schools you’d know that kids often travel outside the school boundaries, so your analysis and comparison to Brent is nonsensical.
Are you a real DC parent or a conservative troll trying to amp up racial division?