I’ll say up front, this is not a troll. I have been married to DH for 10 years. His single dad, who lives in NYC, is an actor and is very handsome. I always thought he was from the minute I met him but never thought twice about him. However, in the last 5 years he has come to visit because my husband travels and help out with the kids more often (I just had my third 2 years ago and others are 7 and 4.). We have spent more time together and really connect. It would devastate my husband(whom I do care for deeply) if I left him but I have never felt this way before. I’m completely head over heals.