Anonymous
Post 03/30/2021 01:08     Subject: Can we normalize the "runner's wave" again?

Op, if they can see your smile does that mean you’re not wearing a mask? How close are you to them? They may be anxious that you’re maskless and too close
Anonymous
Post 03/30/2021 00:44     Subject: Re:Can we normalize the "runner's wave" again?

Anonymous wrote:I always wave to fellow runners. I wave to walkers if they smile and wave first. I’ve learned on DCUM this year how much walkers hate runners.


It’s not a real beef.
Anonymous
Post 03/29/2021 20:00     Subject: Re:Can we normalize the "runner's wave" again?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I always wave to fellow runners. I wave to walkers if they smile and wave first. I’ve learned on DCUM this year how much walkers hate runners.


Walkers don't hate runners - it's the newbies who rarely ventured outside before the past year, who hate runners. Many are still grappling with basic trail/path etiquette (some new runners are as well).


The enemy of my enemy is my friend. Runners and walkers are united in our (justified) hatred of cyclists.
Anonymous
Post 03/29/2021 20:00     Subject: Can we normalize the "runner's wave" again?

I smile and wave all the time!
Anonymous
Post 03/29/2021 19:59     Subject: Can we normalize the "runner's wave" again?

I'm not used to people being friendly around here. Seriously.
Anonymous
Post 03/29/2021 19:42     Subject: Can we normalize the "runner's wave" again?

I'd like to bring the wave back too! I used to wave at everyone and now it seems like people look the other way. I think it's so rude!
Anonymous
Post 03/29/2021 19:28     Subject: Re:Can we normalize the "runner's wave" again?

Anonymous wrote:I always wave to fellow runners. I wave to walkers if they smile and wave first. I’ve learned on DCUM this year how much walkers hate runners.


Walkers don't hate runners - it's the newbies who rarely ventured outside before the past year, who hate runners. Many are still grappling with basic trail/path etiquette (some new runners are as well).
Anonymous
Post 03/29/2021 19:25     Subject: Re:Can we normalize the "runner's wave" again?

I always wave to fellow runners. I wave to walkers if they smile and wave first. I’ve learned on DCUM this year how much walkers hate runners.
Anonymous
Post 03/29/2021 19:14     Subject: Can we normalize the "runner's wave" again?

Drive through my neighborhood; I will wave at you.

Been told this is a Midwest thing but I’m a FXCO native.
Anonymous
Post 03/29/2021 19:02     Subject: Can we normalize the "runner's wave" again?

I do it with familiar strangers that I see repeatedly, but not every person.
Anonymous
Post 03/29/2021 19:00     Subject: Re:Can we normalize the "runner's wave" again?

I am all for friendliness, but I’ve been a runner for 25 years, and I’ve never heard of the runners wave. Or knew that it was really a thing. Whether I’m walking, running, or standing in the street, I occasionally acknowledge people, usually only when they make an effort to make eye contact,but definitely don’t always make it a thing when I’m running. It’s nice to acknowledge people when you feel like it, but sometimes you just zone out, or you simply don’t feel like engaging with other people, and that’s OK too.
Anonymous
Post 03/29/2021 18:33     Subject: Can we normalize the "runner's wave" again?

A lot of newbie runners out there. They may not all be familiar with the "runner's wave."

It took me a few times before I realized the waves and head nods were meant for me. When I first started running, I was focusing so hard on just breathing and keeping my feet moving, and I barely registered the gestures. Just keep extending the good will. Eventually they will be reciprocated!
Anonymous
Post 03/29/2021 18:30     Subject: Can we normalize the "runner's wave" again?

You must not run in my neighborhood, we’re still waving. We must be slow to catch on to new trends out here in the suburbs.
Anonymous
Post 03/29/2021 18:30     Subject: Can we normalize the "runner's wave" again?

Aw, I had the same thought this morning in the blustery wind. I waved to the 3 people I saw and only got 1 wave back. I didn't think it was for the reason you listed, I just figured they suck.
Anonymous
Post 03/29/2021 18:24     Subject: Can we normalize the "runner's wave" again?

This is really getting me down. It's like people are so afraid to even acknowledge another human being outside anymore.

Runners (or walkers), can you please respond to my cracked smile and wave? Let's at least acknowledge that we're out getting exercise and sometimes it's facking hard. And I get being reserved on a trail alone with men, but I'm a 5'2" profusely sweating lady wearing shorts when it's 52 degrees.