I find it somewhat creepy and could be construed as somewhat desperate. If he follows these girls on Instagram, wouldn't everyone he is connected to know about it?

I would be uncomfortable if my husband did this. However, maybe this is the new alternative to playboy magazines or watching porn? I know my husband occasionally watches porn because he told me; however, he is extremely discreet about it and it wouldn't bother me anyway.

Yes he does. He also likes their pictures but never comments

Of course not. My husband is an adult.

Anonymous wrote:I follow a number of hot grad students and med students who enjoy posing in lingerie and tiny bikinis. I sometimes comment on their photos. I expect I will eventually date on of these women.

Do you follow them on insta or irl

Provided he's not talking to them at worst its softcore porn, I don't see the big deal.

I follow a number of hot grad students and med students who enjoy posing in lingerie and tiny bikinis. I sometimes comment on their photos. I expect I will eventually date on of these women.

Anonymous wrote:It tells me he is in his twenties

I do it. I’m 38. I like looking at T and A. The horror.

Anonymous wrote:Worry only if they follow him back.

+1

No, because he’s not a creep.

Worry only if they follow him back.

at his age, it would be weird if he didn’t follow any.

No. But we are in our 40s. But I don’t think he would.

It tells me he is in his twenties

I don’t think my husband knows what Instagram is.

However, how is this any different than you following male celebrities?

My 29 year old fiancé follows a bunch of hot Instagram models on insta. We have a wonderful and loving relationship. Is this a big deal?