Non issue to me.

I know a man who goes by BJ. I don’t think anything of it personally.

Anonymous wrote:Don't do it. Kids can be cruel.

Good grief. Most kids don't make fun of kids' initials. I doubt many people would even ask their middle name.

Beatrice Virginia Juliet Matthews

My babysitter has these initials and has them in her email and I’ve never once thought about the connotations. I think it’s fine.

I know a woman who goes by the initials "BJ." I don't even know what her real name is. She's the mom of one of my kid's close friends.

My moms initials were bj (after marriage) and it was a non-issue.

Don't do it. Kids can be cruel.

No. Just stay way from BJ altogether.

BM is bad enough. Her monogram will be bMj.

OP here. We are into monograms, but the monogram would be bMj

Not a big deal, and likely won't even be noticed unless you're really into monograms or something.

Literally just don't.

Bad

DCUM, how bad are the initials BJM on a girl? Specifically the BJ part. Our baby is due in July, it's also the month that we married, so we're really into the middle name "Juliet". The B is 100% the first name. The other name we really like is Virginia as a middle name, but then BV also sounds terrible (like bacterial vaginosis).

Does it matter that the first two initials say BJ? Or it is only a bad thing if your last name starts with a J?