Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Did anyone actually ask for your advice?

Yes she asked for our advice last night!! I would never tell a soul...SHE is debating.

Yeah no, you gave WAY too many details for it not to be you.

I'm the OP and it's most definitely not me. This is my close friend and there weren't that many details?? Pretty general, not a steamy romance novel!

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Did anyone actually ask for your advice?

Yes she asked for our advice last night!! I would never tell a soul...SHE is debating.

Yeah no, you gave WAY too many details for it not to be you.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Did anyone actually ask for your advice?

Yes she asked for our advice last night!! I would never tell a soul...SHE is debating.

You would never tell a soul? What the actual capital eFFing F? You just posted it on a public message board and got 180 views in an hour! What a crappy friend.

Only a fool would admit this to their fiancé

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Did anyone actually ask for your advice?

Yes she asked for our advice last night!! I would never tell a soul...SHE is debating.

That means she is dumb. And giving dumb people advice never goes well.

Um.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Did anyone actually ask for your advice?

Yes she asked for our advice last night!! I would never tell a soul...SHE is debating.

That means she is dumb. And giving dumb people advice never goes well.

This happened in Mad Men. June slept with Don while married to the new nice guy. Nothing happened. I would take it to the grave if she truly regrets it.

Anonymous wrote:Don't feel bad about sleeping with your ex, OP. This is a common plot device in movies and TV shows. Just enjoy it for what it was and both you and your ex can move quietly forward in your newer relationships. No need to overshare with friends, family, and the UPS driver.

Huh?

Yeah, we get it. You’re asking for a friend. If it were me, I wouldn’t say anything. It was a one-time mistake.

Anonymous wrote:Did anyone actually ask for your advice?

Yes she asked for our advice last night!! I would never tell a soul...SHE is debating.

Anonymous wrote:Take it to the grave.

Absolutely agree. 100 percent. This is a no-brainer.

Take it to the grave.

Did anyone actually ask for your advice?

Don't feel bad about sleeping with your ex, OP. This is a common plot device in movies and TV shows. Just enjoy it for what it was and both you and your ex can move quietly forward in your newer relationships. No need to overshare with friends, family, and the UPS driver.

My friend was married to her husband for 20 years; divorced two years ago. They have a teen daughter and are currently touring her dream college where she was offered a big scholarship, went by car. They went in the same car for COVID sake and stayed at an AirBNB but separate rooms...

My friend told me that she and her ex slept together. She is engaged to someone new. He has a new girlfriend. She said it was nostalgia, a one-time thing, seeing their daughter all grown up...they had some wine...she totally regrets it and does NOT want to get back together. She is freaking out doesn't know if she should tell fiance -- she will of course -- but thinks she has now ruined her life.

Our friends actually wonder if she should say anything. The marriage needed to end, neither wants to go back to it, it was a blip. I hate to see her ruin her future with a new terrific guy over this...but needs to be honest...I can honestly see how it happened, swept up in the moment. They are both good people but not meant to be married. How do you tell a new partner about hti smistake? Both she and her ex feel awful that it happened. They have an amicable relationship. .... WWYD?