Anonymous wrote:kshin29 wrote:I was told I need to see someone as I am a high risk candidate for pregnancy. Anyone have good recs for a maternal fetal medicine doc (or even better, nurse practioner)? DC preferred but will go to MD or VA if they're the best! WOman also preferred. Thanks!
Who told you that you'll need to see an MFM in the first place? My experience is that every OB has their own preferred MFM they trust and like to work with. Thus, I would ask the OB you'll be seeing during pregnancy who they suggest. I have had consults with 4 different MFMs in MoCo while either TTC or pregnant (long story why I've seen so many), and my experience is similar to a PP's statement. Every one I've seen has been either alarmist, dismissive, rushed, or disengaged.
Anonymous wrote:I mean you do you but I had terrible experiences with all the MFM doctors I saw. They were nice enough and educated but every time I went there were 5,000 more things that could be wrong with me, my baby, etc. I just didn’t need the stress of that and it was pre-COVID - I can’t imagine dealing with a MFM now with the stress of the world happening simultaneously. Obviously if there is something severely wrong your OB can’t handle and you need monitored by one then it’s a different story. I switched OB’s halfway and my new OB specifically did not want me routinely going to them because of the stress it causes her patients and she referred me out only at the very end. My baby and I were totally healthy when all was said and done.
kshin29 wrote:I was told I need to see someone as I am a high risk candidate for pregnancy. Anyone have good recs for a maternal fetal medicine doc (or even better, nurse practioner)? DC preferred but will go to MD or VA if they're the best! WOman also preferred. Thanks!