Anonymous
Post 02/13/2021 16:24     Subject: Re:Why does my partner pay $2400 a month child support for one kid?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:If only he were in VA. VA thinks that childcare and raising children in Roanoke and Arlington cost the same.


It’s ridiculous.


No its, not. It goes on time share and income. The custodial parent also has an obligation to financially support the child/ren as well. So, that's not full support, its only Dad's share.


This.

I find that so many people believe that child support is supposed to cover all of a child’s expenses and that’s not true. It’s just a portion. So many times women are disappointed and say they are not getting enough child support when in reality the cost of living and raising a child is higher than then realized and that they will actually need to increase their own income since now they are dependent on a single income.
Anonymous
Post 02/13/2021 16:22     Subject: Why does my partner pay $2400 a month child support for one kid?

Damn that’s high. What’s his salary? I make that biweekly
Anonymous
Post 02/13/2021 16:21     Subject: Re:Why does my partner pay $2400 a month child support for one kid?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:If only he were in VA. VA thinks that childcare and raising children in Roanoke and Arlington cost the same.


It’s ridiculous.


No its, not. It goes on time share and income. The custodial parent also has an obligation to financially support the child/ren as well. So, that's not full support, its only Dad's share.
Anonymous
Post 02/13/2021 16:20     Subject: Re:Why does my partner pay $2400 a month child support for one kid?

Anonymous wrote:If only he were in VA. VA thinks that childcare and raising children in Roanoke and Arlington cost the same.


It’s ridiculous.
Anonymous
Post 02/13/2021 16:14     Subject: Re:Why does my partner pay $2400 a month child support for one kid?

If only he were in VA. VA thinks that childcare and raising children in Roanoke and Arlington cost the same.
Anonymous
Post 02/13/2021 16:13     Subject: Why does my partner pay $2400 a month child support for one kid?

Anonymous wrote:What’s his salary?

If he makes 100K it seems high, but if he makes 400K it sounds really low. Regardless, it’s none of your business. And it classless to try to reduce the support he provides for his child. Go date someone without kids if you have a problem with him spending money on his kid.


exactly. childcare is expensive. if the kid is in daycare or aftercare, custody is less than 50-50, and the mom isn’t a high earner, $2400 is a very easy number to get to.
Anonymous
Post 02/13/2021 16:12     Subject: Why does my partner pay $2400 a month child support for one kid?

It’s based on salary.
Anonymous
Post 02/13/2021 16:11     Subject: Why does my partner pay $2400 a month child support for one kid?

Because the parents and/or the courts decided that was the correct amount. Kids are expensive. MYOB.
Anonymous
Post 02/13/2021 16:11     Subject: Why does my partner pay $2400 a month child support for one kid?

Income + how frequently he sees the child. More evenly split time between parents = less child support.
Anonymous
Post 02/13/2021 16:11     Subject: Why does my partner pay $2400 a month child support for one kid?

What’s his salary?

If he makes 100K it seems high, but if he makes 400K it sounds really low. Regardless, it’s none of your business. And it classless to try to reduce the support he provides for his child. Go date someone without kids if you have a problem with him spending money on his kid.
Anonymous
Post 02/13/2021 16:09     Subject: Why does my partner pay $2400 a month child support for one kid?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:i don't know. maybe he wants to make sure his child is taken care of?? you don't want him to pay?


Child support is based off income. Your comments make no sense.


It makes more sense than OP's question though.
Anonymous
Post 02/13/2021 16:06     Subject: Why does my partner pay $2400 a month child support for one kid?

Anonymous wrote:i don't know. maybe he wants to make sure his child is taken care of?? you don't want him to pay?


Child support is based off income. Your comments make no sense.
Anonymous
Post 02/13/2021 16:04     Subject: Why does my partner pay $2400 a month child support for one kid?

i don't know. maybe he wants to make sure his child is taken care of?? you don't want him to pay?
Anonymous
Post 02/13/2021 16:02     Subject: Why does my partner pay $2400 a month child support for one kid?

For child support? It depends on his income. If he has high income and a child in day care, yes it can be normal. Some of it may also be alimony.
Anonymous
Post 02/13/2021 16:01     Subject: Why does my partner pay $2400 a month child support for one kid?

Is this normal in DC??