I get that these are part to the process if deferred/waitlisted, but, honestly, I'm beginning to wonder what the point is.
My DC is pretty dejected, having been deferred at 2 and waitlisted at 1 (all schools he's interested in). He's kind of frozen and doesn't think these letters will make a difference b/c of the low rates of ultimate acceptance post deferral or waitlist. Maybe I'm just worn down by the process, but I'm beginning to agree.
Does anyone have any advice or been-there-done-that to help shed light on how important this is.