Anonymous
Post 12/15/2020 22:15     Subject: What is the deal with initial necklaces?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I'd have gotten a really big kick out of wearing an initial of one of my high school boyfriends! But that was like 30 years ago so...


+1 This is not something new.


Weird. I would want my own not his!
Anonymous
Post 12/15/2020 22:13     Subject: What is the deal with initial necklaces?

maybe he bought it for you?
Anonymous
Post 12/15/2020 17:38     Subject: What is the deal with initial necklaces?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I'd have gotten a really big kick out of wearing an initial of one of my high school boyfriends! But that was like 30 years ago so...


+1 This is not something new.


Was there a name for this back then? I feel like there was and now I’m blanking.


I'm 45 (so started dating about 30 years ago) and don't remember anyone doing this. We wore our boyfriends' letterman jackets though. I never see young ladies doing that now.
Anonymous
Post 12/15/2020 17:37     Subject: What is the deal with initial necklaces?

Any chance he has a new girlfriend (that just happens to have the same first initial as him?)
Anonymous
Post 12/15/2020 15:46     Subject: What is the deal with initial necklaces?

That's a cute gift for his girlfriend.
Anonymous
Post 12/15/2020 15:22     Subject: What is the deal with initial necklaces?

Anonymous wrote:Why is your "young teen boy" dating a "young woman"? If he's a young teen (13 or 14) shouldn't he be dating a young teen girl around his same age if he's going to date?

A "woman" is someone 18 or older.


shut up
Anonymous
Post 12/15/2020 13:32     Subject: What is the deal with initial necklaces?

Why is your "young teen boy" dating a "young woman"? If he's a young teen (13 or 14) shouldn't he be dating a young teen girl around his same age if he's going to date?

A "woman" is someone 18 or older.
Anonymous
Post 12/15/2020 12:04     Subject: What is the deal with initial necklaces?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I'd have gotten a really big kick out of wearing an initial of one of my high school boyfriends! But that was like 30 years ago so...


+1 This is not something new.


Yes, men have always felt the need to mark their territory.
Anonymous
Post 12/15/2020 10:54     Subject: What is the deal with initial necklaces?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I'd have gotten a really big kick out of wearing an initial of one of my high school boyfriends! But that was like 30 years ago so...


+1 This is not something new.


Was there a name for this back then? I feel like there was and now I’m blanking.
Anonymous
Post 12/15/2020 10:51     Subject: What is the deal with initial necklaces?

Anonymous wrote:I'd have gotten a really big kick out of wearing an initial of one of my high school boyfriends! But that was like 30 years ago so...


+1 This is not something new.
Anonymous
Post 12/15/2020 08:39     Subject: What is the deal with initial necklaces?

Yes it's a thing. My son bought his girlfriend his initial last year.
Anonymous
Post 12/14/2020 15:03     Subject: What is the deal with initial necklaces?

Anonymous wrote:Or maybe he wants to wear it himself?
Either way, better than a tattoo.


There is 0 chance he wants to wear it himself (a plainer style I might wonder, but no question with this one).

And, yes, if the gift was a tattoo (ha!) obviously it would be his name on her. So maybe it should be his initial on the necklace.
Anonymous
Post 12/14/2020 15:00     Subject: What is the deal with initial necklaces?

I'd have gotten a really big kick out of wearing an initial of one of my high school boyfriends! But that was like 30 years ago so...
Anonymous
Post 12/14/2020 14:57     Subject: What is the deal with initial necklaces?

Or maybe he wants to wear it himself?
Either way, better than a tattoo.
Anonymous
Post 12/14/2020 14:55     Subject: What is the deal with initial necklaces?

I see in the Amazon order history that my young teen boy has just bought a woman's initial necklace. But it is for his initial, rather than the initial of the young woman he is "dating" (and there is zero chance he has bought this for himself as some sort of identity expression). Is that a "thing" now, like she wears his initial to show they are an item, or is he misunderstanding whose initial it should be? I would assume it should be her initial, but maybe I'm totally wrong....like maybe I'm thinking of a monogram and this is a different thing....

Help! If the necklace should be her initial, or both their initials, I'm sure he would want to know before he gives it to her. Otherwise I'm happy to keep pretending I never noticed it in the order history. Thanks.