Anonymous
Post 12/22/2020 13:03     Subject: Am I am queer/questioning

Anonymous wrote:I am in a sex-less same sex marriage. Doesn't make me straight...or want to be straight....or think I am. There are a lot of reasons we haven't had sex in 8 years...but I am staying because we are good co-parents and good friends.


Same boat. DW and I get along more as friends nowadays than anything. Would enjoy the opportunity to try a same sex relationship but DW would never go for it.
Anonymous
Post 12/15/2020 08:21     Subject: Am I am queer/questioning

I am in a sex-less same sex marriage. Doesn't make me straight...or want to be straight....or think I am. There are a lot of reasons we haven't had sex in 8 years...but I am staying because we are good co-parents and good friends.
Anonymous
Post 12/13/2020 15:58     Subject: Am I am queer/questioning

It’s only gay if you like it.
Anonymous
Post 12/08/2020 18:32     Subject: Am I am queer/questioning

What is his reasoning? You should agree to discreetly open the marriage if there’s some other benefit to staying. But we don’t know what you’re feeling.
Anonymous
Post 12/08/2020 17:30     Subject: Am I am queer/questioning

Sexless marriage or not, this is about you, and your desires. What do you want to happen?
Anonymous
Post 12/08/2020 13:52     Subject: Am I am queer/questioning

Anonymous wrote:Have not had sex in 6+ years by DH's choice. This has been a challenging period of great reflection for me. I'm definitely Q at this point. Anyone else in a sexless marriage not non-heterosexual, asexual or queer BTDT?


You may just be horny.
Anonymous
Post 12/08/2020 13:37     Subject: Am I am queer/questioning

Have not had sex in 6+ years by DH's choice. This has been a challenging period of great reflection for me. I'm definitely Q at this point. Anyone else in a sexless marriage not non-heterosexual, asexual or queer BTDT?