Anonymous
Post 12/01/2020 22:43     Subject: Grooming = cheating?
Anonymous wrote:There is a pandemic going on. No one is cheating with people they are not bubbling with.

She is bored and tried out something new. Are you always so narrow minded and suspicious.


That was a really naive response. But go ahead and believe that Covid prevents cheating.
Anonymous
Post 12/01/2020 22:38     Subject: Grooming = cheating?
Anonymous wrote:There is a pandemic going on. No one is cheating with people they are not bubbling with.

She is bored and tried out something new. Are you always so narrow minded and suspicious.


You think everyone in America is being covid safe?

Are you new here?
Anonymous
Post 12/01/2020 22:35     Subject: Grooming = cheating?
Anonymous wrote:There is a pandemic going on. No one is cheating with people they are not bubbling with.

She is bored and tried out something new. Are you always so narrow minded and suspicious.


OP here, I am not narrow minded. In fact, I have raised the idea of exploring non-monogamy because I don't see the situation as sustainable long-term. But anyway, I wouldn't have been suspicious if she mentioned it as a "hey honey" but more that I found it. Zero chance she did it to spice things up.

Anonymous
Post 12/01/2020 22:34     Subject: Grooming = cheating?
Anonymous wrote:There is a pandemic going on. No one is cheating with people they are not bubbling with.

She is bored and tried out something new. Are you always so narrow minded and suspicious.


This is rich coming from someone who believes "no one is cheating with people they are not bubbling with" because there's a pandemic going on.
Anonymous
Post 12/01/2020 22:33     Subject: Grooming = cheating?
Anonymous wrote:There is a pandemic going on. No one is cheating with people they are not bubbling with.

She is bored and tried out something new. Are you always so narrow minded and suspicious.


Let me fix that for you:

She’s bored and tried out someone new.

Online dating sites are booming and married people are booking hotel rooms.
Anonymous
Post 12/01/2020 22:32     Subject: Re:Grooming = cheating?
I’m always trimmed, had laser hair removal.

But, I got my first ever Brazilian wax during Covid and I told my husband the entire story and showed him afterwards.

It’s strange she stopped having sex with you while paying more attention to how her beaver looks. Yes- it’s a gigantic red flag. Those two things together are always on a “signs of cheating” list.
Anonymous
Post 12/01/2020 22:29     Subject: Grooming = cheating?
There is a pandemic going on. No one is cheating with people they are not bubbling with.

She is bored and tried out something new. Are you always so narrow minded and suspicious.
Anonymous
Post 12/01/2020 22:28     Subject: Grooming = cheating?
Anonymous wrote:The situation - mid 40s couple. Sex was once great, until kids came, and then it slowly declined to once a week, every other week, and now once a month in a good month. Needless to say, it's always been me the man wanting more and her wanting less.

I noticed when we had sex last week she was very trimmed down there. Not like that for her. We hadn't had sex in 3 months so first I saw of it. She hasn't done that before in our years of marriage except when we were dating (and I don't care, I am fine with whatever).

Is there a reason aside from another man that she would do this?


No sex for 3 months? According to our board expert, she was allowed to unilaterally open the marriage and cheat.
Anonymous
Post 12/01/2020 22:28     Subject: Grooming = cheating?
Slip of the razor and decided to even it up. There are a million random reasons why a woman would do that. I can’t believe you think she might be cheating with just that to go on.
Anonymous
Post 12/01/2020 22:27     Subject: Re:Grooming = cheating?
My husband started caring about manscaping much more. Apparently, I was shaving his back for his mistress all those years.
Anonymous
Post 12/01/2020 22:26     Subject: Grooming = cheating?
Trying something new, trying to spice it up and rekindle interest she is mid 40 which is peak sexual libido for women.
Anonymous
Post 12/01/2020 22:25     Subject: Grooming = cheating?
Not to go into details, but it's more hygienic and cuts down on odor, so maybe she read that somewhere and tried it.
Anonymous
Post 12/01/2020 22:25     Subject: Grooming = cheating?
It's possible she did it for herself.

She's a good affair candidate though. You both are.
Anonymous
Post 12/01/2020 22:22     Subject: Grooming = cheating?
It's not implausible. Inquire within.
Anonymous
Post 12/01/2020 22:22     Subject: Grooming = cheating?
The situation - mid 40s couple. Sex was once great, until kids came, and then it slowly declined to once a week, every other week, and now once a month in a good month. Needless to say, it's always been me the man wanting more and her wanting less.

I noticed when we had sex last week she was very trimmed down there. Not like that for her. We hadn't had sex in 3 months so first I saw of it. She hasn't done that before in our years of marriage except when we were dating (and I don't care, I am fine with whatever).

Is there a reason aside from another man that she would do this?