A sweater? What was he thinking!?

Should've showed up a in a wetsuit.

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Anonymous wrote:A guy on a first date last night wore a sweater. Total turn off?

As always with these questions, there's something else about him that you don't like so you're seeking an arbitrary deal breaker.

Move on.

MMMMMmmmm, I LOVE him. Good choice.

It's not a turnoff for us. It is a turn off for you. That's what matters.

Anonymous wrote:A guy on a first date last night wore a sweater. Total turn off?

As always with these questions, there's something else about him that you don't like so you're seeking an arbitrary deal breaker.

Move on.

You know you don't have to make up nonsense "dealbreakers" if you don't want to see someone again, right? If you're not interested, that's enough. You don't have to invent an imaginary breech of etiquette on his part that justifies denying him access to you. Just say "it was nice to meet you but I don't see this going any further."

Anonymous wrote:A sweater with a button down is my favorite men's outfit. My husband knows to wear that when we go on a date in the winter.

It was a thick one with a hood

You sound crazy, OP. It's November.

A sweater with a button down is my favorite men's outfit. My husband knows to wear that when we go on a date in the winter.

I love a man in a sweater.

My BF wore a nice sweater over a button down. Nice that he didn’t have a coat to keep track of the whole night while we moved from place to place.

absolutely - he clearly doesn't respect you and value you like he should. You need to ghost him

Anonymous wrote:A guy on a first date last night wore a sweater. Total turn off?

As opposed to what, exactly?

It's pretty cold out. What should he have worn?

Did you expect him to show up topless?

A guy on a first date last night wore a sweater. Total turn off?