Anonymous
Post 10/27/2020 22:27     Subject: Does anyone have a healthy sex life with their spouse?

We don’t kiss and tell...
Anonymous
Post 10/27/2020 22:13     Subject: Does anyone have a healthy sex life with their spouse?

Anonymous wrote:That’s because this site isn’t representative of real life. My husband and I are very happy.


Notice no calms of a sex life just the wife is happy.
Anonymous
Post 10/27/2020 22:10     Subject: Does anyone have a healthy sex life with their spouse?

10 years married 5 kids at least once a week happily married.
Anonymous
Post 10/27/2020 22:02     Subject: Does anyone have a healthy sex life with their spouse?

Anonymous wrote:“ Half of people cheat”

Studies have shown everything from 20% to 70%. I suppose you might split the difference, but I don’t believe any of them.


Women don't talk about their cheating.
Anonymous
Post 10/27/2020 21:22     Subject: Does anyone have a healthy sex life with their spouse?

7 years married, two kids under 4. We manage a 4-5 times a month. I could use a bit more but with young kids often in our bed it’s obviously tough.
Anonymous
Post 10/27/2020 21:21     Subject: Does anyone have a healthy sex life with their spouse?

“ Half of people cheat”

Studies have shown everything from 20% to 70%. I suppose you might split the difference, but I don’t believe any of them.
Anonymous
Post 10/27/2020 21:20     Subject: Does anyone have a healthy sex life with their spouse?

40 years old, married 16 years. Sex two or three times a week, including lots of fun foreplay, oral. Getting started in the shower is the best. Very happy.

DH, three kids.
Anonymous
Post 10/27/2020 21:18     Subject: Re:Does anyone have a healthy sex life with their spouse?

22 years married, 24 years together. Still a few times per week. We are both still very fit and toned.
Anonymous
Post 10/27/2020 21:14     Subject: Re:Does anyone have a healthy sex life with their spouse?

I think so, we've been married 14 years and we're still at 2-3 times a week with some weeks where we manage every day. I hope it doesn't change as we age. Reading the threads where people complain make me sad for them and wonder where things went wrong.
Anonymous
Post 10/27/2020 20:35     Subject: Re:Does anyone have a healthy sex life with their spouse?

If you research this, people on their first marriages generally have a good sex life for the first several years and by their 50s, and down to 1-2x a month. Whether that's "healthy" is in the eye of the beholder.

It's a relationship discussion board, sex and money are the top two problems in a marriage. Half of people cheat. Add it together and marital sex or lack of sex is going to be a big issue.
Anonymous
Post 10/27/2020 20:35     Subject: Re:Does anyone have a healthy sex life with their spouse?

Darn right we do and we've been married since the Reagan administration!
Anonymous
Post 10/27/2020 20:31     Subject: Does anyone have a healthy sex life with their spouse?

Really? I always feel these threads have people rushing in to claim that they still do it 3 times a day after being together for 30 years.
Anonymous
Post 10/27/2020 20:19     Subject: Does anyone have a healthy sex life with their spouse?

Anonymous wrote:That’s because this site isn’t representative of real life. My husband and I are very happy.


+1 Many sad/troubled/lonely people on this website.
Anonymous
Post 10/27/2020 20:18     Subject: Does anyone have a healthy sex life with their spouse?

That’s because this site isn’t representative of real life. My husband and I are very happy.
Anonymous
Post 10/27/2020 20:17     Subject: Does anyone have a healthy sex life with their spouse?

So many threads on this website about sexless marriages, being unfulfilled, cheating....is this the norm?