Anonymous
Post 10/27/2020 07:37     Subject: He has an AP

Get a divorce lawyer, they’ll recommend the PI they work with.
Anonymous
Post 10/27/2020 07:35     Subject: He has an AP

Let me guess: you never want sex with him.. and you aren't yet divorced. That can only mean **of course** he has an AP! That is the one thing that has been holding together your marriage. Why is this suddenly an issue?
Anonymous
Post 10/27/2020 07:21     Subject: Re:He has an AP

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:VA.
Like a good girl I married and left megapolis NYC


Sorry OP. You are going to have to pay him alimony. Do you have kids?


She’s in VA. Adultery = no alimony.

OP, any private investigator can help you.
Anonymous
Post 10/27/2020 07:18     Subject: Re:He has an AP

Anonymous wrote:VA.
Like a good girl I married and left megapolis NYC


Sorry OP. You are going to have to pay him alimony. Do you have kids?
Anonymous
Post 10/27/2020 07:09     Subject: He has an AP

Anonymous wrote:But wait, if she makes more than him and he stepped out, proving the affair could keep her from paying alimony.

It’s not a bad idea to get the evidence.


Dude. Even stay at home moms only rarely get alimony. It’s pretty much unheard of when both spouses work.
Anonymous
Post 10/27/2020 06:40     Subject: Re:He has an AP

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Would not evidence help me divorce ASAP?
I can’t stand him.

What state?


If he’s having an affair, you can file for divorce immediately (at fault) in Virginia.
Anonymous
Post 10/27/2020 06:39     Subject: He has an AP

But wait, if she makes more than him and he stepped out, proving the affair could keep her from paying alimony.

It’s not a bad idea to get the evidence.
Anonymous
Post 10/27/2020 06:18     Subject: Re:He has an AP

VA.
Like a good girl I married and left megapolis NYC
Anonymous
Post 10/27/2020 06:11     Subject: Re:He has an AP

Anonymous wrote:Would not evidence help me divorce ASAP?
I can’t stand him.

What state?
Anonymous
Post 10/27/2020 05:54     Subject: Re:He has an AP

Would not evidence help me divorce ASAP?
I can’t stand him.
Anonymous
Post 10/27/2020 05:03     Subject: He has an AP

Anonymous wrote:Just get a divorce.

Don’t waste your time trying to find evidence of infidelity. Nobody cares and it won’t help you in the divorce.

I’m sorry this is happening to you.

I thought this can get me speedy divorce.
Anonymous
Post 10/27/2020 04:47     Subject: Re:He has an AP

“Someone told after seeing them.”

Seeing what? Them out to dinner? Leaving a hotel?
Anonymous
Post 10/27/2020 04:44     Subject: He has an AP

Just get a divorce.

Don’t waste your time trying to find evidence of infidelity. Nobody cares and it won’t help you in the divorce.

I’m sorry this is happening to you.
Anonymous
Post 10/27/2020 04:41     Subject: Re:He has an AP

Will appreciate references.
I have kids... don’t want to live like this as a joke.
Anonymous
Post 10/27/2020 04:28     Subject: He has an AP

Someone told me that after seeing them.
Can’t stand my spouse!
Where do I find investigator to get on digital trail???
We have all finances separate as I earn much more... Wanted to keep it separate after learning from the first divorce.