Hey is this another thread where we get to tell a parent what a stupid asshole their kid is? Awesome, love those! They are very helpful and really build self-esteem.

Jesus H. Christ on a cracker, pick colleges you like and apply and go to the one that accepts you that you like best. As long as they are ABET and have the intended engineering discipline you'll be fine.

As for the rest of you judgmental and unhelpful posters, you are a bunch of jerky-jerkfaces.

Maryland or Va Tech. He needs to become a person, before he becomes a sour bitter shell of a person. Maybe this is a troll post.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:None of them are even in the Top 10. Have you discussed priorities with him?

+1. Does he want to go to an Ivy just to say he did? Because it won't give any edge in finding a job. His worry about Cornell makes him sound like he lacks maturity/is insecure.

It's more about a sense of accomplishment. He's worked very hard and feels he deserves better than Cornell. It's unfortunate they have a very strong engineering program but that he feels very little interest in the school aside from loosely being acknowledged as an Ivy school.

What makes him think he can get into any of them?

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:None of them are even in the Top 10. Have you discussed priorities with him?

+1. Does he want to go to an Ivy just to say he did? Because it won't give any edge in finding a job. His worry about Cornell makes him sound like he lacks maturity/is insecure.

It's more about a sense of accomplishment. He's worked very hard and feels he deserves better than Cornell. It's unfortunate they have a very strong engineering program but that he feels very little interest in the school aside from loosely being acknowledged as an Ivy school.

12:25 here. Um, yea, his values are messed up.

Yep. There is definitely something wrong with you and your son. If you had even researched schools, you would know that all the ivies are so different from each other. To only apply to schools because they are ivies is complete stupidity. He feels he deserves better than Cornell???? The apple doesn’t fall far from the tree. So I can imagine you feel the same too.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:None of them are even in the Top 10. Have you discussed priorities with him?

+1. Does he want to go to an Ivy just to say he did? Because it won't give any edge in finding a job. His worry about Cornell makes him sound like he lacks maturity/is insecure.

It's more about a sense of accomplishment. He's worked very hard and feels he deserves better than Cornell. It's unfortunate they have a very strong engineering program but that he feels very little interest in the school aside from loosely being acknowledged as an Ivy school.

12:25 here. Um, yea, his values are messed up.

Would suggest you both do more research and be open to other schools at this point. Large state schools have top programs—Michigan, Texas, Wisconsin, GA Tech, Cal, UCLA. On the private side, MIT, Carnegie Mellon, Cal Tech, Leigh, etc. There are a lot out there if he truly wants to pursue engineering.

This is insanity. He needs to go talk with some real engineers and get his head screwed on straight. If he really wants to be an engineer he needs to be more analytical about his approach to college admissions.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:None of them are even in the Top 10. Have you discussed priorities with him?

+1. Does he want to go to an Ivy just to say he did? Because it won't give any edge in finding a job. His worry about Cornell makes him sound like he lacks maturity/is insecure.

It's more about a sense of accomplishment. He's worked very hard and feels he deserves better than Cornell. It's unfortunate they have a very strong engineering program but that he feels very little interest in the school aside from loosely being acknowledged as an Ivy school.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:None of them are even in the Top 10. Have you discussed priorities with him?

+1. Does he want to go to an Ivy just to say he did? Because it won't give any edge in finding a job. His worry about Cornell makes him sound like he lacks maturity/is insecure.

It's more about a sense of accomplishment. He's worked very hard and feels he deserves better than Cornell. It's unfortunate they have a very strong engineering program but that he feels very little interest in the school aside from loosely being acknowledged as an Ivy school.

Yikes

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:None of them are even in the Top 10. Have you discussed priorities with him?

+1. Does he want to go to an Ivy just to say he did? Because it won't give any edge in finding a job. His worry about Cornell makes him sound like he lacks maturity/is insecure.

It's more about a sense of accomplishment. He's worked very hard and feels he deserves better than Cornell. It's unfortunate they have a very strong engineering program but that he feels very little interest in the school aside from loosely being acknowledged as an Ivy school.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:None of them are even in the Top 10. Have you discussed priorities with him?

+1. Does he want to go to an Ivy just to say he did? Because it won't give any edge in finding a job. His worry about Cornell makes him sound like he lacks maturity/is insecure.

This. I was going to say his values seem off. Perhaps it is a maturity issue.

Anonymous wrote:None of them are even in the Top 10. Have you discussed priorities with him?

+1. Does he want to go to an Ivy just to say he did? Because it won't give any edge in finding a job. His worry about Cornell makes him sound like he lacks maturity/is insecure.

None of them are even in the Top 10. Have you discussed priorities with him?

Anonymous wrote:DS is dead-set on attending an Ivy league school, but is also only interested in engineering. Based on my research, the strength of the engineering program follows roughly this order:

Cornell
Columbia/Princeton
Harvard
Yale
Dartmouth
Brown

Realistically we think he can only get into Cornell or Dartmouth. While Cornell may have the strongest program, in his situation he would likely lean toward Dartmouth because Dartmouth would still like a real ivy to him and he wouldn't feel insecure about attending Cornell which many think is not a "real" ivy. Would be be shooting himself in the foot by going to Dartmouth over Cornell for engineering?

Yes he would.

DS is dead-set on attending an Ivy league school, but is also only interested in engineering. Based on my research, the strength of the engineering program follows roughly this order:

Cornell
Columbia/Princeton
Harvard
Yale
Dartmouth
Brown

Realistically we think he can only get into Cornell or Dartmouth. While Cornell may have the strongest program, in his situation he would likely lean toward Dartmouth because Dartmouth would still like a real ivy to him and he wouldn't feel insecure about attending Cornell which many think is not a "real" ivy. Would be be shooting himself in the foot by going to Dartmouth over Cornell for engineering?