Anonymous
Post 10/23/2020 12:04     Subject: Re:Dating a party guy
Anonymous wrote:I know this can be a hard decision op. Good Luck with it...If you are in a light mood and have a sense of humor see below..

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=_tO9dA2syYM


OMG funny.
Anonymous
Post 10/23/2020 12:03     Subject: Dating a party guy
Yes, amazing physical connection. He’s very affectionate with me around his friends. It’s not a friend zone situation.
Anonymous
Post 10/23/2020 12:03     Subject: Dating a party guy
Failure to launch. Loser.
Anonymous
Post 10/23/2020 12:01     Subject: Re:Dating a party guy
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:How did you meet this guy? Why are you hanging out with his friends after only 2 weeks?


We met on a boat party few months ago, he was causally dating another girl. We recently ran into each other at a mutual friends place, mentioned he is single now. We really hit it off and vibe well. He has invited me to hangout and meet his other friends roughly everyday. The friends seem to be involved in a hardcore work hard play hard lifestyle. Every night seems to be another hangout that slowly turns into a party or place where everyone is invited. Never seems to be one on one time with the two of us.


Do you have a physical relationship? This sounds kind of friend-zoney. You could try asking him to dinner, or making dinner, but I doubt things will change.
Anonymous
Post 10/23/2020 11:42     Subject: Re:Dating a party guy
This is behavior that says a lot about his capacity to connect. It's not good
Anonymous
Post 10/23/2020 11:37     Subject: Re:Dating a party guy
Anonymous wrote:How did you meet this guy? Why are you hanging out with his friends after only 2 weeks?


We met on a boat party few months ago, he was causally dating another girl. We recently ran into each other at a mutual friends place, mentioned he is single now. We really hit it off and vibe well. He has invited me to hangout and meet his other friends roughly everyday. The friends seem to be involved in a hardcore work hard play hard lifestyle. Every night seems to be another hangout that slowly turns into a party or place where everyone is invited. Never seems to be one on one time with the two of us.
Anonymous
Post 10/23/2020 11:31     Subject: Re:Dating a party guy
I know this can be a hard decision op. Good Luck with it...If you are in a light mood and have a sense of humor see below..

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=_tO9dA2syYM
Anonymous
Post 10/23/2020 11:30     Subject: Dating a party guy
*Almost 40 (not partying)
Anonymous
Post 10/23/2020 11:29     Subject: Dating a party guy
This guy would hold ZERO appeal for me.

Almost partying and getting drunk at all night parties???
Anonymous
Post 10/23/2020 11:26     Subject: Re:Dating a party guy
How did you meet this guy? Why are you hanging out with his friends after only 2 weeks?
Anonymous
Post 10/23/2020 11:25     Subject: Dating a party guy
OP here. He is 36. Does well for himself, smart outgoing tech guy.
Anonymous
Post 10/23/2020 11:18     Subject: Dating a party guy
How old is he? 20s, its normal and even he probably knows he'll have to slow down. 30s and he's a man child
Anonymous
Post 10/23/2020 11:12     Subject: Dating a party guy
I'd bail. This is who he is, and two weeks in you have very little invested. I had a bf like this and he'd never gonna change.

Instead of trying to change guys into who you want, immediately rule out the ones who don't fit your criteria.

Kinda amazed you put up with this. He sounds clueless. Dates shouldn't be "hanging out", and a guy who takes a first date to hang out with friends isn't relationship material.
Anonymous
Post 10/23/2020 11:06     Subject: Dating a party guy
Break up. You're not compatible and he won't change.
Anonymous
Post 10/23/2020 11:02     Subject: Dating a party guy
Recently started dating this guy, it’s been about two weeks. Everyone we hangout with his friends it becomes an all night party. Enjoy his energy and outgoing personality but how do I relay to him I want more one on one time? He does drink heavily as do I so no animosity against the party life. Need some advice on how to ask without coming off attention seeking or needy.