I have no idea if what I’m going to say is helpful, but here goes!
Are they saying do a freeze-all EMBRYO cycle? Eggs don’t store as well as embryos, plus egg quality can be negatively impacted by high estrogen levels (which fibroids can impact as well).
I had surgery that they first tried to do laproscopically but ended up opening me up. My RE (SGF), surgeon (an oncological gynecological surgeon- no they weren’t cancerous) and OB said I needed to wait six months post surgery before trying to get pregnant. When I had my ectopic pregnancy, which removed my tubes and part of one of my ovaries, I had to wait three months to then start IVF. I would be really hesitant to move forward quickly after a major surgery (the incidence of uterine rupture is much higher the more quickly you get pregnant following surgery), and even just waiting one month after laparoscopic seems...rushed. BUT, I was in my late 20s at the time of my ectopic removal so maybe that’s why I got slightly different advice.